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#1  Edited By Killa_Jo

My girlfriend recently told me she needs space because ive been fighting with her about her spend more time with her guy friends more than she does me. She also enjoys spending more time with them than me. I still love her but i think she is going to break up with me. Thoughts?
 
Edit: She wont answer my texts/calls until she contacts me somehow at night at some random time

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#2  Edited By Willy105

If she still contacts you, she loves you.
 
Just stop hogging her all the time.

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#3  Edited By markini6

When I told a now ex-girlfriend that I wanted a break, it was because I was fed up with her.
 
 
 
 
Just sayin'.

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#4  Edited By Binman88

Thoughts? What? None of us know you or your girlfriend, so how could we possibly offer you any meaningful advice? I am of the opinion that these sorts of questions/problems are best sorted out with friends and family, not internet message boards about video games.

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#5  Edited By Killa_Jo
@Binman88:  <3
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#6  Edited By Frozen_Ice

Well, at least you came to the right place. A website about video games is obviously the best possible place to seek relationship advice.

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#7  Edited By Guyzea

She probably prefers Deathstroke.

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#8  Edited By mylifeforAiur
@Binman88 said:
" Thoughts? What? None of us know you or your girlfriend, so how could we possibly offer you any meaningful advice? I am of the opinion that these sorts of questions/problems are best sorted out with friends and family, not internet message boards about video games. "
Absolutely all of this. Some matters are best kept away from the general public.
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#9  Edited By Marz

It's over bro, time to go shoot yourself.

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#10  Edited By zeforgotten

So you're still texting her, even when she wanted some space ?
Yeah she's gonna dump you. 

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#11  Edited By Mandaray

Go do your own thing for awhile. Hang out with your own friends. Focus on your own life. Don't ignore her or shut her out, but also don't really prioritize her for a little while. See how she responds. You two might really just need a little space, and that's OK. Doesn't mean it's the end of the world. But usually when one or the other person in a relationship is losing interest, it's because you've started taking each other for granted, so the quickest way to get it back is to simply decrease said attention. And, if she decides she likes having her own space and that she doesn't really want to hang out with you anymore, then you know which way the wind is blowing and can make your decision accordingly.

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#12  Edited By Killa_Jo
@Frozen_Ice:  ah this is what i need <3 thanks guys.
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#13  Edited By wolf_blitzer85
@Killa_Jo:
 
Chill out bro. For one thing NEVER EVER fight about your girl's guy friends. That just makes you look like an immature jackass who has insecurity issues.
 
Also stop with the spamming of her phone. Not the best way to help your cause. Besides, she could actually be busy and not able to answer it. I can definitely say she won't like looking at her phone and seeing like 20 text messages and 10 missed calls from you. That just makes you look weak.
 
Just calm down, pop in a nice violent video game and shoot some guys in the face. Let her know that her taking a break is not that big of a deal to you, and you are willing to give her the space she needs. 
 
Is this your first girlfriend? I'm not asking in a bad way or anything, just trying to make out the situation, since I have been exactly where you were way back in the day.
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#14  Edited By Binman88
@Killa_Jo said:
" @Binman88:  <3 "
I love you too. But seriously, I'm just being honest - posting your problems here may do more harm than good. 
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#15  Edited By one_2nd

I love how you're looking for advice and everyone thinks it'd be funnier to just make fun of you. You guys are assholes. 

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#16  Edited By zeforgotten
@one_2nd said:
" I love how you're looking for advice and everyone thinks it'd be funnier to just make fun of you. You guys are assholes.  "
Never said I wasn't.  
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@Killa_Jo: I don't know you or her, but I do know that I would have already said to myself "fuck it, its time to move on" because its probably already over. At the very least, you should just stop texting and calling and just let her call you.
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#18  Edited By thebatmobile

It's game over.

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#19  Edited By Arbie
@Mandaray said:
" Go do your own thing for awhile. Hang out with your own friends. Focus on your own life. Don't ignore her or shut her out, but also don't really prioritize her for a little while. See how she responds. You two might really just need a little space, and that's OK. Doesn't mean it's the end of the world. But usually when one or the other person in a relationship is losing interest, it's because you've started taking each other for granted, so the quickest way to get it back is to simply decrease said attention. And, if she decides she likes having her own space and that she doesn't really want to hang out with you anymore, then you know which way the wind is blowing and can make your decision accordingly. "
This!
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#20  Edited By Jaserno
@markini6 said:
" When I told a now ex-girlfriend that I wanted a break, it was because I was fed up with her.     Just sayin'. "
This. Chances are you and her won't see through this 'break'. Sorry to say dude. I truly hope things are alright for you.
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#21  Edited By Karl_Boss
@one_2nd said:
" You guys are assholes.  "
You have to be an asshole to survive on these forums.
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#22  Edited By gamb1t

uhhhh your to clingy. i think your the girlfriend and shes the boyfriend. shes not responding cause your MAD ANNOYING.

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#23  Edited By Icemael

Bitch be leavin'. Dump the hoe's ass before she dumps yours and get yourself a lady friend who be respecting your authority, you hear me?

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#24  Edited By Killa_Jo
@Icemael said:
" Bitch be leavin'. Dump the hoe's ass before she dumps yours and get yourself a lady friend who be respecting your authority, you hear me? "

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#25  Edited By Spoonman671

Breaks are dumb.  There are more than 3 billion other women out there.

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#26  Edited By Colin

Your doomed.
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#27  Edited By one_2nd
@Killa_Jo said:
" @Icemael said:
" Bitch be leavin'. Dump the hoe's ass before she dumps yours and get yourself a lady friend who be respecting your authority, you hear me? "
"
lmfao. great advice from a greater man. 
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#28  Edited By Godlovesugly

Dump her before she dumps you, it's coming. Beat her to the punch.

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#29  Edited By EpicSteve

Breaks usually mean they don't want you, but don't have the balls to throw you our of their life completely. She's probably curious about someone else. Either way, forget her.

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@Killa_Jo said:
" @Icemael said:
" Bitch be leavin'. Dump the hoe's ass before she dumps yours and get yourself a lady friend who be respecting your authority, you hear me? "
"
While your at it, bang her best friend, and if possible, her mom. +100 internet points if its at the same time.
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#31  Edited By walreese55
@Killa_Jo: Time to /h
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#32  Edited By hai2u

sorry to say but its over dude, she is probably interested in one of the guys shes hanging out with and they will hook up pretty soon. shes just being nice to u and want to let u down gently. move on, forget her, find some1 new.

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#33  Edited By Spoonman671
@Manhattan_Project said:
" @Killa_Jo said:
" @Icemael said:
" Bitch be leavin'. Dump the hoe's ass before she dumps yours and get yourself a lady friend who be respecting your authority, you hear me? "
"
While your at it, bang her best friend, and if possible, her mom. +100 internet points if its at the same time. "
That's misleading!  You only get the points if you've got pictures.
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#34  Edited By Killa_Jo
@hai2u said:
" sorry to say but its over dude, she is probably interested in one of the guys shes hanging out with and they will hook up pretty soon. shes just being nice to u and want to let u down gently. move on, forget her, find some1 new. "
thats what i though, if its true. ill stab him :)
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#35  Edited By baconbits33
@Erzs said:

" @Mandaray said:

" Go do your own thing for awhile. Hang out with your own friends. Focus on your own life. Don't ignore her or shut her out, but also don't really prioritize her for a little while. See how she responds. You two might really just need a little space, and that's OK. Doesn't mean it's the end of the world. But usually when one or the other person in a relationship is losing interest, it's because you've started taking each other for granted, so the quickest way to get it back is to simply decrease said attention. And, if she decides she likes having her own space and that she doesn't really want to hang out with you anymore, then you know which way the wind is blowing and can make your decision accordingly. "
This! "
Disagree, I take it your a young guy, honestly if you are this worried and stressed about this girl, then it's best for both of you to end it. Your young, what the hell are you doing being so damn committed? I wouldn't even waste my time with all that "break" bullshit, from my personal experience the last girl to say she wanted a "break" turned out she just wanted to see if I actually would get worried and would cause me to want her more. And hate to tell you, that's usually what the girl is trying to do, simply stress you out. 
Don't waste your time dude, go find another chick, or better: Her best friend lol 
I know it seems like it sucks to lose her, but dude life does go on, break ups suck and they hurt like a bitch but man, your young, seriously there are PLENTY of girls out there, this is drama that you don't need. 
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#36  Edited By genaciv

not to be mean, but if she wants a break, i agree with EpicSteve. she's probably more interested in someone else, which is why she is spending more time elsewhere. whether or not she's done anything doesn't matter much, because we're talking about feelings here, not actions. the best you could do is let her do her thing, and if she comes back, fine... if not, fine... just make sure you have things to keep your interest towards yourself, your friends, etc. and not be focusing on her. if you focus on other things, you won't be a mess, and you can deal with things as they come with a cooler head once she figures out what she wants. also, bang her sister if she's hot (obligatory forum mentality)

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#37  Edited By ch3burashka

I suggest a Kit-Kat bar.

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#38  Edited By Rockdalf
@Killa_Jo said:
" @hai2u said:
" sorry to say but its over dude, she is probably interested in one of the guys shes hanging out with and they will hook up pretty soon. shes just being nice to u and want to let u down gently. move on, forget her, find some1 new. "
thats what i though, if its true. ill stab him :) "
It's over, time to move along now.  "I want a break" means "I want to bang a lot of people, but keep you on hold in case it falls through". 
 
Best thing you can do is go do your own thing, with your own people having a good time and don't think about her.  If she see's your life is better without her, she'll come back like the needy parasite she really is, and you can shut her down again, shattering her self-confidence into pieces too small for her to pick up the next few years.  She'll probably then fall into drug problems and amateur porn star circuits, if she doesn't kill herself first. 
 
But the best advice I can give you is to find a new girl bro.  And don't let her know you need her.
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#39  Edited By OmegaChosen

Maybe she wants a break because she feels you're being a little jealous and smothering and feels some time apart will be good for you two. Maybe she just doesn't want to be around you anymore and is seeing whether you take the hint or if it's better to not be with you anymore. I don't know the situation or people involved well enough to make an educated guess.
 
If I had to make very vague, very general advice it'd be prepare yourself mentally for a break up since that is always a possibility. That way if she does you won't get so emotional that you may do or say something you may regret. If you feel like taking an active approach to resolving this issue and staying together if you feel that she may indeed dump you, you can try to ask her yourself if she's thinking about breaking up with you or, if you feel like being indirect, ask her friends if she's said anything about you that she didn't like. If they're willing to help that can usually be taken as a good sign.  If not, they either don't like you personally, don't feel like getting in the middle of it(though they might divulge information as long as it can't be traced back to them), or they don't like you from something your girlfriend said. 
 
Again, this is very general. Modify it to the best of your ability to suit your situation. Or ignore it. That's fine too.

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#40  Edited By Killa_Jo
@OmegaChosen: that pretty much sums it up but the only thing i want..no wanted to know was when she would be ready. i dont care anymore fuck it, it is what it is
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@Spoonman671 said:
" @Manhattan_Project said:
" @Killa_Jo said:
" @Icemael said:
" Bitch be leavin'. Dump the hoe's ass before she dumps yours and get yourself a lady friend who be respecting your authority, you hear me? "
"
While your at it, bang her best friend, and if possible, her mom. +100 internet points if its at the same time. "
That's misleading!  You only get the points if you've got pictures. "

I hate to do this sir, but  if you were to look in the Book of Internets, page 173, paragraph 5, you would see that pictures are only required in the event that live streaming is not possible and if no official is present. So you see, good sir, you were only half right.
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#42  Edited By peepeepoopoo696

Dump dat ho an get un new 1.

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#43  Edited By regularassmilk

Toss a bitch.
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you should follow her at night and see where she goes, and hide in the shrubbery, then lurk in the shadows. then while shes taking a shower, break into her house and write I LOVE YOU! on the bathroom mirror in lipstick. just so she knows your still there for her.

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#45  Edited By Noodles

Suicide will be the sweet release you are looking for.
 
Or ice cream.

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#46  Edited By Killa_Jo
@LordRupertEverton said:
" you should follow her at night and see where she goes, and hide in the shrubbery, then lurk in the shadows. then while shes taking a shower, break into her house and write I LOVE YOU! on the bathroom mirror in lipstick. just so she knows your still there for her. "
i did that, besides the part with the lipstick. i cut my finger and wrote it in blood
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#47  Edited By Lemoncookie01

Go get some yogurt.

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#48  Edited By JerichoBlyth

Dump her first - then she'll talk about you with her guy/lady pals and grow to love you even more so because you're a complete bastard.

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#49  Edited By lolgreg

I have this one close female friend of mine who is also very close with a couple of my other buddies.  Her best friends are all male.  Her ex-boyfriend (note ex) who we all used to be friends with would argue with her about us. 
 
Nobody likes him anymore. 

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in my experience "take a break" is the phase right before "broken up". Sorry bud, just my 2 cents.