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#1 Edited by BosSin (33 posts) -

Don't see this posted here after a search, but everyone is going apeshit over there after sexual harassment allegations were made against the site owner (Tyler Malka aka EviLore). There has been an exodus of site moderators as well. I'm not privy to all the details so feel free to post things you know about it here.

Also, this is my first thread so I apologize if I've somehow fucked up in creating it.

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#2 Edited by SansJason (55 posts) -

This is seriously a big deal and what really gets me is that, apparently, the first incident of Evilore's blatant sexual harassment was revealed back in 2012, but nobody in the press bothered to mention it. One of the first Google results for his name is a fawning interview with him at Kotaku from 2015.

Considering how much games media, including Giant Bomb, has propped up NeoGAF over the years, it's pretty fucking disgusting that I keep getting led to KotakuInAction and 4chan off-shoots trying to find information about this.

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#3 Posted by BosSin (33 posts) -

Yeah, I won't be frequenting the website anymore. This is the 2012 incident that you speak of: https://imgur.com/a/eBPYm

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#4 Posted by Slag (8157 posts) -

It sure looks like it. I'm on some GAF related discords and they are getting absolutely flooded with join requests.

I don't see Neogaf surviving this, at least not with EviLore there. Unfortunately for Gaffers I believe the allegations likely have merit. Hopefully the good aspects of that community can be re-established elsewhere. I liked reading the community threads.

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#5 Posted by KenzinFive (4 posts) -

Long-time GAF user here. It’s one of the sites I check daily, both for gaming and off-topic.

So, uh, can I crash here at the GB forums for a while? Or forever? Been a premium member for a few years but never actually posted here.

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#6 Posted by braves01 (127 posts) -

I hope this gets mentioned on the bombcast/beastcast next week. I think it's at least as relevant to video game news as some of the PewDiePie stuff considering the number of stories that have been sourced from gaf over the years.

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#7 Posted by BosSin (33 posts) -

Yeah as a long time gaf user I am actually sad to see it end like this. Guess I'll be using the GB forums more often.

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#8 Edited by Slag (8157 posts) -
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#9 Posted by BosSin (33 posts) -

@slag:

So this is where I start my new life. Time to live the Giant Bomb dream, one cheesy gordita crunch at a time.

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#10 Posted by SansJason (55 posts) -

@braves01: Unless people start pushing the issue, I doubt they talk about this. I could be wrong, but I believe they never commented on Nick Robinson, right?

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#11 Edited by MilShap (1 posts) -

Might as well make my first post here to say that it's sad to see GAF go like this, hope more info comes out.

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#12 Posted by KenzinFive (4 posts) -

@slag: Giant Bomb podcasts are my bi-weekly medicine.

Time to make these forums my...uh, some other medical analogy.

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#13 Posted by Brewmaster_Andy (623 posts) -

Yeah I really liked the community threads on neogaf. Sad to see it burn down like this but it's probably for the best.

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#14 Posted by outunderstars (7 posts) -

I spent a decade on gaf, with almost 50,000 posts. Sad to leave it but I can't be part of it anymore. Guess this is my new home. :)

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#15 Posted by SethMode (1931 posts) -

I like how almost every mention of it I see on Twitter when I searched #NeoGAF is a bunch of a shitty Gamergate dudes pounding their chests and claiming responsibility. The internet is sure something else.

As far as this is concerned, I really hope that this keeps happening. It's a shame that it comes at the cost of a site that a lot of totally fine people enjoyed using, but hopefully these consequences further serve to teach people to not be fucking monsters. This EvilLore guy seems like a real piece of shit.

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#16 Posted by Redhotchilimist (2954 posts) -

Man, what a bummer. I just started lurking on GAF last month, and the threads I was following over there for specific games have been outstanding.

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#17 Posted by loungemonkey (56 posts) -

Maybe we will see an uptick in these forums.

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#18 Posted by Dray2k (884 posts) -

I'm not educated to the matter, but I browsed NeoGAF a whole lot when TLG came out and I also remember that there was the 2012 incident. Is this a new allegation or is this related to the one in 2012?

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#19 Edited by BosSin (33 posts) -

@dray2k: New allegations apparently. But again, it's hard to be sure with the crazy state the site is in right now.

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#20 Posted by ArtTeitlebaum (17 posts) -

This doesn't necessarily mean the end of that community. If Malka steps down and sells the board to some respectable new owner, it's possible that there's still a future. Especially OT still has some nice members left.

But tough times are ahead, that's for sure.

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#21 Edited by Hayt (1664 posts) -

This was an annoying way to find out my Pillars of Eternity portrait is this dudes face. My wizard does not endorse this.

Bloody kickstarter backer bonuses.

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#22 Edited by BerserkingGuts (137 posts) -

Guess I might as well hang out here then.

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#23 Posted by wenis (61 posts) -

I've been on some permutation of gaf since 2001, this has been a terribly exciting day.

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#24 Posted by KenzinFive (4 posts) -

GAF community/[TOPIC]GAF was great for topics on specific subjects, without the upvoting and other parts of Reddit. I was subscribed to some threads for specific cartoons and games, and having only a few regular posters in those threads was nice for building a small community about something. The threads were in-depth, detailed, and insanely nerdy - just how I like it.

The site also felt like a safe haven against the shittier aspects of gaming culture like Gamergate. Key word “felt,” because now its owner has been exposed as a different kind of piece of shit.

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#25 Posted by SethMode (1931 posts) -

@hayt: Wow, you just really bummed me out with that information.

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#26 Posted by conmulligan (1894 posts) -

I don't visit GAF unless news breaks there so I'm completely out of the loop. Does anyone know what the allegations are?

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#27 Posted by recroulette (5456 posts) -

It's a mass exodus to Discord communities at this point. Pretty damn hectic.

Although, for me personally it's not a matter of what he did, but why is NOW the breaking point for a lot of mods/admins. Will be interesting to see what comes out of this.

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#28 Edited by mrfluke (6099 posts) -

End of an era

The bits and pieces ive seen of the evil lore story really make this guy seem terrible and a elitist

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#29 Posted by MocBucket62 (2485 posts) -

This is really sad and shocking news. While I'm not a NeoGaf member, I have browsed the site to look at countless different forums gaming or off-topic related. Since it seems like Evilore is a scumbag, can't say I'll go there anymore unless as @artteitlebaum mentioned, Evilore sells NeoGaf to a new owner that has a respectable and not shady background.

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#30 Posted by L1GHTN1N (1992 posts) -

Ah so that's why I haven't been able to get to it the past few hours, that sucks to hear. I started lurking the SFV/MvCI/FGC threads a couple months back and checking out the general threads, like KenzinFive mentioned even though I was just lurking it felt like a small community around it. Sounds like it got shut down/protested for good reason at least.

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#31 Posted by Shaanyboi (1682 posts) -

NeoGaf refugee here.

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#32 Edited by SansJason (55 posts) -

@conmulligan: This is the new allegation: https://imgur.com/r/Drama/FJrjx

A woman claims that he followed her into their hotel room shower, while she was drunk.

The 2012 incident is linked above by @bossin: https://imgur.com/a/eBPYm. Someone draws attention to him groping a woman in a bar, he makes a bunch of fatuous excuses and bans anyone discussing it.

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#33 Edited by Marokai (3711 posts) -

This has definitely been a crazy story to try and follow considering the lack of coverage on it so far.

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#34 Posted by Mupod (44 posts) -

My last post on the GB forums was in the Dark Souls 1 announcement thread...but yeah, for now looks like everyone has been flocking to Discord.

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#35 Posted by Atmos (2 posts) -

Yep, eff that place. This is inexcusable behavior. I guess I'm here now!

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#36 Posted by Redhotchilimist (2954 posts) -

@l1ghtn1n said:

started lurking the SFV/MvCI/FGC threads a couple months back

You and me both.

On the plus side, this thread is already more active than every other thread on here, so maybe the influx of people will breathe some life into the forums.

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#37 Edited by hassun (9915 posts) -

At this point it certainly seems like it will be either evilore goes or neoGAF goes. Another Giant Bomb E3 couch guest that turned out to be a huge bummer...

It will be interesting to read/hear about what Patrick and Brad have to say, as people who came from the Gaming Age forums.

I've been a member and moderator of message boards with severe internal struggles in the past. It wasn't pretty. I'm happy the GB forums can provide a well-moderated but open discussion ground for this kind of thing. Seeing all threads get wiped in situations like this is always a bad look.

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#38 Posted by Toparaman (82 posts) -

Well, the site is down. The place was my internet home for four years, and was a revelation to me back in 2013 (wow, gamers who can speak coherently and reasonably!). But in the past year or so, I was mostly just using it as a news aggregator.

Guess it's Giant Bomb the whole way down now. Maybe I'll subscribe to some subreddits as well, and use Twitter more. It's going to be weird though. NeoGAF was my place for games, pop culture, current events, politics, etc.

@dray2k said:

I'm not educated to the matter, but I browsed NeoGAF a whole lot when TLG came out and I also remember that there was the 2012 incident. Is this a new allegation or is this related to the one in 2012?

Someone alleged on Facebook that Evilore walked in naked on her taking a shower. No response from Evilore yet.

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#39 Posted by KenzinFive (4 posts) -

I keep waiting for the site to go back up to download my avatar and see where some of the people in the threads I subscribed to are headed. Feels like I’m trying to run back into a collapsing house to save some things.

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#40 Posted by BosSin (33 posts) -

@sansjason: Oh shit, I remember some dude claiming to be her brother creating a thread about this on NeoGaf. It turned out to be Tyler!?

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#41 Posted by Slag (8157 posts) -

I'm not sure there's any mods left there. 11 supposedly have quit. Well known posters like jawmuncher are gone. I wonder if Neogaf will survive the weekend

And it looks like the site itself may have just been taken down. Getting 503 errors messages now

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#42 Posted by Sydle (22 posts) -

After learning about Tyler's incidents over the years I am done with GAF. Had I known that he leaked nude pics of someone's girlfriend years ago I would have left back then.

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#43 Posted by SansJason (55 posts) -

@bossin: I don't know. All I have are these receipts from extremely gross sources. I don't follow NeoGAF otherwise because (haha) they fucking banned me for shit-talking Boogie while he was supporting GamerGate.

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#44 Edited by BosSin (33 posts) -

@slag: it's very intermittent. The 503s come and go, it might be getting hit with a huge amount of traffic

edit: ok now it seems to just go immediately to the 503 page, but this did happen once before and they brought it back. I don't know...

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#45 Edited by Onemanarmyy (4235 posts) -

I'm not really familiar with Neogaf's structure, but if this is one admin amongst a group of admins, how hard is it to just kick him out the group? Why are other admins stepping up instead? Is he a bigger deal than they are? Oh derp, just read that he's the site owner.

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#46 Posted by Aegon (7304 posts) -

The sad part from the perspective of a member of this site is Giant Bomb nearly never speaks about this stuff.

The Beast Cast sometimes touches on it.

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#47 Posted by Atmos (2 posts) -

@onemanarmyy: He is the owner. Basically making millions (or at least enough to live comfortably) off the forums.

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#48 Posted by DrArchon (18 posts) -

Another gaf refugee here. Seems like the site's well and truly dead right now, so maybe GB can be my new home?

God, this sucks so much. Why can't people not be scumbags?

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#49 Posted by BosSin (33 posts) -

On another note, why is this thread deemed to be off-topic instead of a general discussion? Just so I'm a little clearer on forum rules.

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#50 Posted by ripelivejam (13128 posts) -

I glance at their OT threads occasionally, which are pretty well done and have some nice discussion of specific games/good way to get hyped or get an opinion about something.