The Graduate - 3/5
I saw this for the first time, and I have opinions on this.
If you're not familiar with it, this is the story of Benjamin Braddock, the titular Graduate, who has an affair with an older woman and eventually falls in love with her daughter Elaine.
The movie is very, very funny at times. So much cringe, all the way through, which made me alternately whince and laugh. And some of the camera work is fascinating - albeit a bit on the nose, with all the visual metaphors and phallic symbols.
The problem is that Benjamin is just such a worthless, insipid, disgusting character. It's a little unclear the extent to which we are meant to root for him - I'm guessing, probably not very much - but I'm sure in 1967 he was hailed as a hero. He feels imprisoned by all of the expectations his family and family friends put on him. Well, tough luck friend. He gets a free education, a car, a beautiful home, etc. Everything in life is laid out before him. As someone who put himself through college and never had a car until recently when I could afford it, in my 30s, it's hard for me to feel too bad for him. If you're not happy with your life, just do something about it. Need to get away? Go on a road trip. Tired of suburban city life? Go pull an "Into the Wild" or something. Do *something, *anything*. If this were a film about depression, I could understand, having had serious bouts of this myself; but the movie frames this not as depression but as some kind of imprisonment. Ben, your parents seem like kind, normal people. Nobody's jailing you. Just go live your life. If you don't like living with your parents, get a job and move out. No need to sulk in your room.
Of course, this is the character at the beginning of the movie, and he has an arc. The problem is his arc goes at 90mph from bland nothing to sex toy to crazed psychopath, when he starts to stalk Elaine. He's barely dated her and he wants to marry her, expects her to ignore the fact that he just ripped her family apart (and the fact that they have no chemistry)? Nope. Get away, Elaine, while you still can.
I don't buy the ending, where Benjamin pounds on the window during her wedding and she runs off with him. Elaine showed zero sign of being a free spirit before this point - in fact, she went along with everything her parents wanted her to do, including marrying somemone else. If she was in love with Benjamin this whole time, she had ample opportunity to do something, anything, about it before this; and given that, Benjamin's actions here, interrupting her wedding and screaming her namme repeatedly, are those of a truly unhinged stalker. That said, I have to say that in spite of myself I did love the ending; it was quite funny and weirdly satisfying to see them both fighting off the whole crowd of congregates in a highly exaggerated way.
The last shot, of them both on the bus looking at first happy and then less so as their idiocy dawns on them, is amusing. But what am I supposed to take away? These characters are both so uninteresting and make so many incredibly stupid choices. I guess they're going to get the comeuppance now, in another loveless marriage maybe? It's not like this is an *easy* mistake to make.
This is a movie about rich kids going crazy and doing insane things to keep themselves from the ennui of everyday life and societal expectations. Well, rich kids, please just remember that you have the world at your fingertips; go and climb a fucking mountain or something. You don't have to dismantle the lives of everyone you love.
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