I'm about to go on a rambling tangent here, so sorry ahead of time.
I can't really imagine how boring and bland the world would be if every single piece of media was safe and assessable to everyone. I don't really think everything should be loved by all potential audiences. I know it's a bit odd to say but alienation kind of makes things special in a weird way.
I remember not knowing a damn thing about Twilight and going to watch it with a friend of mine because I heard it was a cool vampire movie. I remember thinking that movie was awful and horrendously boring but the friend I went with absolutely loved it. I find that to be kind of cool how two people can watch the same thing and get a totally different feeling and emotion out of it. It's very fun when I pick up a piece of media that I instantly feel like this is made for me. I don't particularly like playing video games with girls with ginormous boobs and absurd jiggle physics but I am extremely happy it exists for the people that want that.
Some people might view that as objectifying women but I never really understood that opinion, because I've always viewed fictional characters in stories as human shaped objects that moves the writers plot along. Take a horror movie for example. If all of the actors in the movie were actually being murdered, it would be for lack of a better word, horrifying to watch. Knowing it isn't real makes it entertaining.
In video games where you create a character I never really viewed it as making a person. I always saw it as an Avatar to project my actions into. They aren't real people because it would be horrendous to work a real man like a puppet.
Part of the reason why I like to read and play video games it is an escape from real things and real people. The same lonely dude who oggle's some polygonal woman in the privacy of his own living room probably wouldn't do that to an actual woman at the supermarket. For some people that's all they have. I don't want to take that from them. And if that alienates a few people, so be it.
I guess what I'm trying to say is objectifying human-like things don't really devalue the genuine article but I definitely understand an actual woman being put off by media like this. I realize that not all media can be for me and that's okay.
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