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Siblings and Spoilers (or, why can't I just enjoy Red Dead?)

Here I am, on the verge of being 19, sharing a room with a nine year old. Worse, he's a nine year old who is pretty good at the games he plays. Any game I bring home, I have to share with him (i.e. fight over who's played longer) A recurring problem with this being that he has inordinate amounts of free time and no desire to ever take a game slowly. He blows through any game in front of him, whining to me at the first hint of a problem, although being fully capable of handling it himself. The biggest problem imposed on me, besides being muscled off my own games and the near-constant cries for assistance thereafter, is the high chance of spoilers.  
 
This really culminated in Read Dead Redemption, as numerous minor plot points were revealed to me, causing me to come to my own conclusions on things I really had no business knowing. As such, the ending didn't have nearly as much emotional impact on me as it should have. Even though it was pretty small tidbits here and there, they're so numerous that the blanks start disappearing the longer it continues.  What I'm really saying, is that this game would have left me reeling, but of no fault of my own, the story's value is continually degrading the longer my play-through. In my current situation I'm nothing short of punished for trying to get the most out of any game entering my household. It's indescribably frustrating.  
 
I understand that, for the most part, he's just being a nine year old (not that a nine year old should be playing Red Dead anyway, but that's also not my choice), wanting to share his experience with his older brother, but the best way to rectify this that I can see is too stop him from playing my new games altogether, at least until I'm done with them. I don't think I can stand to have another story ruined for me. 
 
I don't know where I'm going with this post anymore. I need to stop before this just degrades to me complaining about my brother. I'm sure a lot of you have had it rough with siblings too.

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Here I am, on the verge of being 19, sharing a room with a nine year old. Worse, he's a nine year old who is pretty good at the games he plays. Any game I bring home, I have to share with him (i.e. fight over who's played longer) A recurring problem with this being that he has inordinate amounts of free time and no desire to ever take a game slowly. He blows through any game in front of him, whining to me at the first hint of a problem, although being fully capable of handling it himself. The biggest problem imposed on me, besides being muscled off my own games and the near-constant cries for assistance thereafter, is the high chance of spoilers.  
 
This really culminated in Read Dead Redemption, as numerous minor plot points were revealed to me, causing me to come to my own conclusions on things I really had no business knowing. As such, the ending didn't have nearly as much emotional impact on me as it should have. Even though it was pretty small tidbits here and there, they're so numerous that the blanks start disappearing the longer it continues.  What I'm really saying, is that this game would have left me reeling, but of no fault of my own, the story's value is continually degrading the longer my play-through. In my current situation I'm nothing short of punished for trying to get the most out of any game entering my household. It's indescribably frustrating.  
 
I understand that, for the most part, he's just being a nine year old (not that a nine year old should be playing Red Dead anyway, but that's also not my choice), wanting to share his experience with his older brother, but the best way to rectify this that I can see is too stop him from playing my new games altogether, at least until I'm done with them. I don't think I can stand to have another story ruined for me. 
 
I don't know where I'm going with this post anymore. I need to stop before this just degrades to me complaining about my brother. I'm sure a lot of you have had it rough with siblings too.

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Make sure you're out of the room when he's playing it?

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Move out

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@Muttinus_Rump: I try, but he won't ever leave it paused when I need to come in and get something, and he plays it loud enough to hear on the other side of our house through headphones.
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@Centimani:  Dude your 10 years older than him, hide your games from him dont let him play and if he cries? dude your 10 years older than him not much room for him to argue with you over whats fair and whats not since you can beat the crap out of him
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@Centimani:
 
This is what I'd do:
 
Explain to him that he's ruining games for you, and tell him that that he has to wear headphones and/or keep the volume down when plays, and he has to not talk about the game AT ALL.  Explain that if he doesn't do this, you're going to take the games that you're paying for and either hide them or lock them away, and he won't be able to play them anymore.    Try to be nice about it, and make him understand how much it's bothering you.  If he fights you on it, try to get your parents involved and get their support.  If they don't care about you having the plots of your games ruined, and they force you to let him play all of your games, then you're pretty much screwed.
 
Again, that's just what I would do.
 
Also, what is a 9 year old doing playing a game that's he's about half the proper age to play in the first place?