@swedishpop: I've searched both the comments here and Twitter but the best I can find is "Merritt was mean about my autobiography" which sucks but are mean Tweets being elevated to abuse here? It's unprofessional, petty, and a dick move to subtweet so I get the anger — that's understandable and valid for the author. Where I get lost is how this is somehow being elevated to the level of whispered allegations of abuse that require a episode disclaimer; a concession made that is still not enough for some folks. Or how people are writing off the GB community as toxic when everything I've read here from GB members seems polite. I'm concerned people are demanding that Twitter/social media beefs carry the same weight as a serious allegation of abuse.