I've been lucky to never loose anyone so I can't even start to understand how you feel right now. Apart from grieving too much will sadden everyone. Just remember what being happy is all about.

I'm incredibly sorry to hear that HallwayGiant. A loss that massive would be devastating to me as well. I'm not really sure what to tell you friend, except to remember their lives rather than their deaths and to believe that they died happy and with the people they cared about.