Much of what you can say about the situation with family blogging, you can basically say about parenting in general. When I got my first job, my mom was like, "All of that money is going into the family pot." Parents decide what you will do or what you won't do. They decide what you consent or don't consent to. Parents make fun of their kids. Parents force their kid into a gymnastics class by the time that kid barely knows to walk. Only in this case of vlogging, it's more public than usual.
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