" First off, this isn't a "HOLY CRAP I'M SCREWED SHE'LL SLEEP WITH EVERY KENYAN SHE FINDS" type of emo insecure post. I trust her, yadda yadda. Let's get out of that mode right now. What I want to know is has anyone gone through something like this before? She'll be in Kenya for two years and it'll be a major change. I'm sure the first month she's gone I'll feel very awkward and somewhat out of place because I won't be able to call/text/see her. In the long run it'll probably be really fast since I'll try to keep myself entertained as much as possible, but... y'know, just looking for some help or advise. What's interesting is when she gets back from the PC I'll be completely different: I'll have every Master's Degree class done except for the capstone, I'll have both my A+ and Network+ certification, AND I'll be two full years into a work out regime (I'm planning on working out as much as possible when she is gone to better my body as well as surprise her). Thanks! "
Don't change yourself just because you think absence makes the heart grow colder. From my experience, this kind of stuff doesn't work, but then... I've seen examples where it does. I was away from the girl of my dreams for a year and couldn't take it... maybe the working out bit isn't a bad idea.
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