sadbrother315

First of all I apologize for putting drama in this awesome board. Thanks to all who responded and showed their concerns. It cleared my mind right away..and also Kudos for the funny ones too. More power to this site.

I married my wife last 2000 and both brother A & B didn't attend my wedding. Older brother A's wife used to date me (For 2 weeks) but I dumped her for my current wife (since I knew her first). Youngest brother B's ex-girlfriend is my sister in law and his current girlfriend is so jealous of her. Due to the" parameters?" they were forced? by their partners not to attend my wedding ceremony and party. I went to brother A's wedding twice since he married two different women before my wedding. Supported him then but when my day came both brothers did not show up no explanation.

My wedding pictures looked bare. I had to invite non relatives just to even up the wedding party. My wife was and still is furious about this (13 years and counting) we want to blame my Dad since we are Asians fathers usually have a say in a wedding or a sibling turmoil? No apologies up to date.

Fast forward... Wife of brother A passed away 2 yrs ago (only 35yrs old), Brother A met someone and they are going to get married (after 2 yrs of dating) next year. I feel bad for the new bride if I wont attend because she's not involved in my brothers' rude behaviour. What's p***es my wife is we have 5 daughters and non of them was chosen to represent my side ( I guess it's a girl thing).

I sort of forgiven my brothers since among the 3 of us my Dad favours me the least. It felt like barking on thin air.

I just dont know what to do.