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@brodehouse said:

@nictel: "if a lot of women say something is sexist then it is"

No. This is an appeal to the majority. Things are what they are based on the evidence observed, not based on popular opinion. We say the sky is blue because it has the properties that we call 'blue', not because a lot of people agree it is blue. The sky will remain blue independent of what people think, until either the sky or the definition of blue changes.

Now you transfer this into the idea that in order to understand what racism or sexism is, and to be able to identify it, it is necessary to have experienced racism or sexism first hand. This is not true for a number of reasons. First of all is humanity has empathy; we can understand something through imagination of experience. You are capable of recognizing racism or sexism even without being victimized by it, independent of your own 'experience'. You are also capable of recognizing when things are not sexism, or not racism, independent of your own experience, by looking at the evidence. You are wrong in thinking that because enough people agree, or enough people of the proper gender, that therefore it must be true. Things are true based on their evidence, not people's opinion. This is the core principle of rationalism. Sexism exists where one gender is treated differently, not where women (or men) say it does.

Your example of "when talking about nuclear fission we should talk to scientists rather than plumbers". This says that knowledge and understanding is preferable, and this is true (though don't fall into the fallacy of believing the scientist is right in her argument because the plumber is not a scientist, this is an appeal to authority). However, when we're talking about gender equality, women do not have a monopoly on knowledge and understanding as you so believe. That you are willing to throw away critical thinking in favor of taking whatever a woman says as truth is fine for you, but do not place that on other men, or other whites, or other straights. I will judge sexism by the definition of sexism and the evidence presented in any situation, not by the gospel of one gender. And I do not appreciate being ignored because of my gender, race or orientation. It does not become okay because society says it is.

It is a very different thing to say 'we should get a female opinion on this' than to say 'opinions from those other than female do not matter.' The reason we might want to have a scientist in a argument or a woman in a discussion on gender equality is twofold. One is that they are more likely to give a fuller argument in their particular field - the scientist on fission and the woman on female inequality - due to more experience on the topic, which would hopefully touch on more facets of the issue and this give a fuller examination of the problem. The other is that any assertions made by those people are more credible due to their experience, as after all not every statement can be backed up with perfect and complete evidence, especially on a topic so nebulous and wide-reaching as gender equality.

None of this is absolute in any way - at no point have I said that a woman or a scientist would definitely be better in the debate than a man or a layperson, and crucially at no point have I said that the arguments put forward are lessened or invalidated by their gender or experience as this would, of course, be an ad hominem attack. And also, the experience of the debaters should be well-rounded - while the nuclear fission debate would be enriched by a scientist present, this would only enrich discussion of matters relating to the actual science of the issue. Other facets of the debate, such as the logistics of mining and enrichment of the uranium needed for the reactors or the storage of potentially hazardous long half-life nuclear waste may well be outside of the scientists area of expertise. Similarly, while I think that having a woman present in a debate on gender, I think the exact same of having a man present, and if there were a debate where the debaters where overwhelmingly female, I would think that highlighting the male opinions would be of value to the debate. But this is the internet, and it's video games, so such discussions are inevitably few and far-between.

While yes, arguments should be judged entirely independently of the arguer, this is only possible with idealised, perfect debaters on either side who can cover every facet of a topic and verify everything with solid evidence. When this is not possible - which of course it never is - the imperfections in the debater unfortunately become part of the debate. This does not the make the debate any less valid, but it does mean that the debate is not necessarily complete.

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There's a lot of separate points covered in this thread, so here's a wall of vaguely related paragraphs:

I don't think Mike intended to be transphobic. When you look at what he said in the email exchange he seems to be entirely in favour of treating those who identify as women as women and those who identify as men as men, no matter what they look like downstairs. The hang-up is on the words for sex and gender being the same. The classical view is that they're the same because sex and gender are the same, but when you try and separate sex and gender, you're trying to separate two definitions of male/female and man/woman from one another when the classical view is that there aren't two definitions in the first place. And so you arrive at the situation where Mike wants to use the words male and female in the context of sex - where he is entirely correct that boys have a penis and girls have a vagina - but everyone else is reading them in the context of gender where the above is most definitely not true. Separating the two definitions when they're so ingrained in every part of society requires a significant amount of doublethink, and so it's entirely unsurprising that there's backlash against redefining a word so integral to talking about the basic facets of other people.

In fact, I think there's a real problem with the whole language that's become part of this topic. Sexuality is damn complicated, and so a million and one words have grown to describe it all. The problem is that talk about this topic inevitably becomes dense with terminology and discussion becomes one of semantics - when people are getting hung up on words like 'woman', there's no chance in getting across the intricacies of concepts such as why we need 'pansexual' when we have 'bisexual' or having third gender people in addition to 'full' male-to-female or female-to-male transsexuals, or so many other complicated issues. And if you are talking to someone who understands all these terms then it's very likely that they agree with you anyway, so you're just preaching to the choir. If people actually want to convince other people then you have to go to them and use words they understand; having this lexicon just obfuscates what is fundamentally a simple message - let's all just treat each other as people first and foremost before anything else.

I've never really seen the appeal of wanting a list of adjectives to identify yourself by in the first place; I'm nominally 'straight' but I can hardly say I identify as straight, that being straight is how I identify myself. After all, no person is ever 100% straight or gay or whatever word they choose, and when even the simplest words can vary drastically in meaning from person to person, and when the words themselves are changing in meaning with time, AND that person's sexuality is also going to be changing in time, then what on Earth is the point of all this jargon? I don't have sex with those I label as women, I just have sex with the people I want to have sex with and internally I know who those people are - I just don't see the value in labelling it further.

There's also the whole video games, dude side of things where the topic is dismissed because who cares, it's just video games and they're meant to be fun! While I understand where people are coming from with this, it's silly to dismiss an entire medium as just dumb fun - video games are a lot more than just run to the right and get a big number to put after your initials. But the other half of the argument seems to ignore the fact that there are plenty of games which are just about running to the right - while you can absolutely argue that something like Super Mario Bros. paints a potentially harmful representation of women, this is very much limited by the fact that people aren't using Mario games to teach them how to treat women. This is especially true when the damage can only be there with the male rescuer, yet the Mario of Super Mario Bros. is barely a character - he only serves to be an avatar for the player, and so the fact that he is male, or a plumber from Brooklyn, or anything else about him is entirely secondary to the fact that you control him, and there is no better evidence of that than romhacks where Mario is replaced by a female. Can you really criticise video games for something that is completely separate from the video game itself?

And this is the reason why I tend to dislike most of the feminist video game journalism that takes place. Yes, all the specifics of what happens is awful and terrible and should be stopped, but is it actually anything to do with the video games in which you want to contextualise it all? The tone of it all always tends to be that it's a problem with video games, that video games are broken and we need to fix it all - it's not video games that's broken, but the whole of society itself. If we're going to keep pretending that it's a problem originating in the medium and not inherent in everything around it then we're never going to fix anything. We need to stop treating the symptoms, and work out the cause.

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@krullban said:

I don't see any logical reason for them to state all of these policies that would obviously get tons of backlash, then suddenly change everything completely.

So you came up with a completely illogical one instead! Nice one.

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#5  Edited By stalefishies

The way people seem to want to spin the KI demo into a rape joke is kind of pathetic, honestly. It's a game about literally beating the other player up - of course the talk about the game is going to be competitive in nature. I can see how you can theoretically get from 'it'll be over soon' to rape, but in the context of a squash match in a fighting game it becomes such a huge leap in logic that it's nonsensical.

But the most embarrassing thing about it all is that, as a byproduct of this weird obsession with wanting to twist it into a rape joke, people have managed to miss the real damage in what was said. The whole thing was a joke. The punchline? That the woman was - shock horror - actually good at video games! Who'd have thought!? Yet the proliferation of this genuinely damaging stereotype has been swept under the carpet by the very people who think they're fighting against it. It's just silly.

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'ffs ryan enough with this segment already, this is boring'

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#7  Edited By stalefishies

I just want to add that I've just come back from an exam where I had Lock Down stuck in my head the entire time and it was NOT helpful.

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Party Hard isn't an E3 song, Party Hard is just a general waiting-for-the-stream-to-start song.

But Lock Down? That's an E3 song.

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#9  Edited By stalefishies

My gut reaction on hearing about it was thinking it was really weird to get a Fez 2, especially for me so soon after playing the Steam version. But that logo, and that logo alone, actually made me super excited.

I actually think I just want a new Fez soundtrack more than I want a new Fez game. It and the two remix albums are amazing.

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