You know... Christmas isn't always about the gifts. The problem with most people and businesses nowadays is that they over commercialize and make Christmas a holiday that everyone dreads to see coming, because they either have to get something for someone or it’s all about what you get them because they expect it and take it for granted.
When I was younger, my parents did spoil me rotten, because they wanted me to have a better childhood than they did. I didn't really appreciate TO REALLY APPRECIATE what all they've done for me. As time when on, I had learned a hard lesson that my attachment to material items that I don't really need and most certainly could live without was stupid. Material can become immaterial really quick. With what time I spend on this earth, I'd rather be around people who love and care about me rather than trying to rely on material to make me happy. Material can only make you temporarily happy. Time is a precious thing, and it’s best not to waste it. Most people nowadays rely on material, and it’s really a damn shame.
Now, it NEVER hurts to do or give something to someone, because it’s the thought that counts. It works the other way around as well sometimes, because it’s a part of the process. I think that Christmas is overrated, because for one thing… the Christmas tradition of giving, getting, doing or swapping presents can be year-round. I do stuff for people when I’m able to, then I move on. I don’t need that one day Christmas tradition to do that.
I may not be able to relate to your situation, but what I do have is understanding what you mean. You say that you don’t know what you want, but you’ve already stated clearly of what you wanted. You want to be with your girlfriend for Christmas, but you might have to make that compromise to accept others like her family (if family is super important to her) or your family into the picture IF ya’ll usually have a gathering. As long as you’re with her and you can make her happy, that’s all that counts right? You're offering her your time right, and time is a precious thing?! If there is anyone that you should do for, it’s going to be her... and you already know that. If not, think about it. I think that you'll be rewarded too if you do so.
See you later rebel.
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