Thanks Patrick. And thanks Ryan. What a shitty day.
July 3, 2014
I'm going through some tough times myself, Patrick, so I wanted to thank you for writing this. That bit about wanting to contribute something, that means a lot to me to read. I know it can't mean much from someone you've only met once (after your panel at PAX East this year), but you definitely have touched me with your contribution to our community. The work you do at GB, along with everyone has helped, and still is helping me through some tough times.
Thanks so much for everything.
Its good to get emotional baggage out there every so often, makes moving on easier in some ways. Almost 3 years since my fathers death. Particularly devastating at the time, felt like I had lost my one true friend, the guy who would actually risk his life to save mine. Memories may fade, but remember that it was you father who helped shape you as a person, he lives on in you. You are your fathers most cherished gift to the world.
I hadn't realized that your dad and Ryan passed on the same date. i'm now switchng my argument for which day should be Ryan Davis Day to June 4th. Fuck July 3rd.
Well said Patrick. Brought a tear to my eye ;.;
Much love to you all at GB, and to the memories of Ryan and your dad <3
Time marchers on, and so must we all, as life makes us all soldiers, shaped by experience. We gotta live life to the fullest, for those who have gone and for those yet to come. Journey's will end, but is is just that. the journey and not the destination, that we must embrace to the fullest.
Thanks for that, Patrick.
Beautifully written!
I lost my grandmother last November and she was one of the most important people in the world to me. She raised me, rescued me from an abusive childhood and was really one of the only people to love me for who I was. This sounds weird but Ryan's passing taught me to remember the life and the impact that person had, not the tragedy of the loss. I honestly think that is the only thing that got me through her passing. Remembering the good and not lingering on the bad.
I hope you have a good holiday weekend duder, you guys deserve it.
Patrick, I don't agree with you on very many things, but the one thing I am happy to agree with you on is how much we miss that magnificent man Ryan Davis. It must be so tough having to remember two lost loved ones on the same day. I hope you know that the community is behind you.
Reading this reminds me how its the people in our lives that are the most important, thank you for reminding me of something that should never be forgotten :) stay safe Patrick and know that our thoughts are with you and the whole GB crew :)
Thank you for sharing this Patrick. Beautifully written.
I remember the Bombcast you came back on after your father's passing and Ryan said something to you about being happy you were back/that he missed you and it weirdly stuck with me and struck me at the time for being so ridiculously kind and sincere. It was a small, passing gesture but for whatever reason It did and continues to stand out to me as sort of how good a person Ryan was and how big a loss he has been.
I really hope that they are both resting in peace and happy in another world, smiling and cracking a couple of heavenly beers open.
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