Today I called a dude I had met at a STAR Test for the first time a few weeks ago. Shit was mad wack, here's why.
So my mom found his number (the guy's name is Mark, I really think it would be funny to give out his number here for the lulz, but I won't) in the dirty clothes (probably in a pants pocket) and I was excited, I was like "Hey I was thinking about calling Mark, I wonder how life's going for him?" So I called him a bit eariler today (5 or 6 PM if I recall properly) and this is what follows:
Me: "Hey is this Mark?"
Mark: "Huh?"
Me: "Is this Mark? This is Elias from testing, I wanted to call to see what's been going on."
Mark: "Hey are you that guy from Vegas? Did you get my text message?" (wtf)
Me: "Huh? No this is Elias."
Mark: "Aaron?"
Me: "No, Elias, E.L.I.A.S., from the STAR test earlier this month. I just wanted to see how things were going."
Mark: "OH. That guy!
They're going okay, I'm just chillin out."
Me: "That's cool, hey what are you going to do this summer? I'm so pysched! I'm going to be gaming a lot, I don't get to play too much video games because I'm pretty busy often doing my homeschool work and excersizing, etc., so I'm going to be able to do a lot of that. What are you going to do this summer man?"
Mark: "I got nothing planned, I think I'll just be relaxing."
Me: "Are you going to be seeing any movies this summer? Any movies you're excited about? Summer is the season for movies after all."
Mark: "I dunno I haven't seen to many I'm interested in yet"
Me: "So how's school been going? You told me you've been getting D's and F's, have things been getting better? Is everything looking up-
Mark: "Huh?"
Me: "Is school going well for you lately?"
Mark: " SOMEONESCALLINMEONTHEPHONE"
The fucker hung up.
I called him back and asked him if he had dropped the phone or something, he said "No I hung up" and hung up AGAIN.
Since when does somebody feel it's okay to hang up on someone mid conversation for no reason when someone is being really polite to them?
Apparently asking how things are going is offensive now?
Today I called a dude I had met at a STAR Test for the first time a few weeks ago. Shit was mad wack, here's why.
So my mom found his number (the guy's name is Mark, I really think it would be funny to give out his number here for the lulz, but I won't) in the dirty clothes (probably in a pants pocket) and I was excited, I was like "Hey I was thinking about calling Mark, I wonder how life's going for him?" So I called him a bit eariler today (5 or 6 PM if I recall properly) and this is what follows:
Me: "Hey is this Mark?"
Mark: "Huh?"
Me: "Is this Mark? This is Elias from testing, I wanted to call to see what's been going on."
Mark: "Hey are you that guy from Vegas? Did you get my text message?" (wtf)
Me: "Huh? No this is Elias."
Mark: "Aaron?"
Me: "No, Elias, E.L.I.A.S., from the STAR test earlier this month. I just wanted to see how things were going."
Mark: "OH. That guy!
They're going okay, I'm just chillin out."
Me: "That's cool, hey what are you going to do this summer? I'm so pysched! I'm going to be gaming a lot, I don't get to play too much video games because I'm pretty busy often doing my homeschool work and excersizing, etc., so I'm going to be able to do a lot of that. What are you going to do this summer man?"
Mark: "I got nothing planned, I think I'll just be relaxing."
Me: "Are you going to be seeing any movies this summer? Any movies you're excited about? Summer is the season for movies after all."
Mark: "I dunno I haven't seen to many I'm interested in yet"
Me: "So how's school been going? You told me you've been getting D's and F's, have things been getting better? Is everything looking up-
Mark: "Huh?"
Me: "Is school going well for you lately?"
Mark: " SOMEONESCALLINMEONTHEPHONE"
The fucker hung up.
I called him back and asked him if he had dropped the phone or something, he said "No I hung up" and hung up AGAIN.
Since when does somebody feel it's okay to hang up on someone mid conversation for no reason when someone is being really polite to them?
" haha so he picked up and said "i hung up" then hung up? that's pretty funny. though i'm sure the dude just didn't want to talk. maybe he didn't care about what you were doing or who you were. "He could of fucking said that instead of hanging up like a dick sucker. I'd be a lot more happy if he did that.
Dude, he met you at a random test, you never spoke to him for weeks and you decide to ring him and expect him to be best buddies?
Yeah I don't think he wanted to talk. He might be someone like me, unless you're a close friend, don't bother trying to start a conversation with me after a long time of nothing.
You calling him out of the blue like that was a tad inappropriate. You're a guy he met once for a very brief time, asking him what all his personal plans are for the summer. Kinda creepy.
You didn't know him well enough (and he didn't know you well enough) for this phone call to work/make any sense.
And what the hell is a STAR test?
" Holy shit, you're dumb as hell. Are you autistic or something? Dude was being polite and clearly hinting that he didn't want to talk to you, you kept on blathering on about shit neither he nor anyone else gives a damn about, and then after he dropped the least subtle hint in the history of language, you called him back? "Not at all, he pretended he didn't know me at the beginning of the conversation if you didn't understand that first part.
" He was obviously not very interested in talking to you. Something tells me you don't have many friends.. "
Well, he sounds like a douche, and you sound a little awkward. I would have been more lenient had you called me (don't though)
" @emkeighcameron said:Can I ask why you're so seemingly worked up over a dude you met once? If someone calls me, I want them to have something to say, not just 'hey how's it going'. I understand being homeschooled might affect your ability to make friends and develop social skills as quickly as someone in a public school, but you just called the guy to say hi, essentially. From your little transcript it didn't really seem like you had anything important to say to the guy, and he wasn't interested in hearing about your video game playing summer." Hey I was homeschooled tooo *phone rings* huh "If you actually had basic reading skills, you would realize that MARK said "huh?" as the first thing he said, NOT ME. "
Just move on. If this dude doesn't want to be your friend, so be it.
" @EliasT: Nopenope, still on the line! How's the homeschooling going? Do you have to learn crazy stuff like Esperanto? I dated a homeschooled guy a year ago or so, and he was also lacking in some social skills type areas. He was also a really kinky guy, but I'm not sure if that's an environmental thing. Anyway, his parents made him learn Latin and Esperanto and stuff, on top of his normal studies, but the guy had no idea what the Revolutionary War was! It was nuts. "Thank you for not making me feel like an asshole.
Anyways, I have learned a bit of Spanish, not sure what Esperanto is though. This will sound cliched, but homeschooling isn't what people think it is, I have a friend that is homeschooled that has some of the best social skills I've seen in my life, that's no joke.
Just move on. If this dude doesn't want to be your friend, so be it. "Well yeah, I kind of figured that when I ended the first call.
I called again for re-assurance, and I was assured that he actually didn't like me, which is always funny to me, I always try to be nice to people and I get kicked in the beanbags OVER and OVER and OVER again, in some ways I'm glad I'm homeschooled.
That doesn't mean I think that all people suck, no no, I'm not a cynic.
I didn't mean to imply all homeschooled folk are pretty lacking in the social department, but the guys I've met who've been homeschooled, and cultivated most of their friendships over the internet, are a lot like you. It's not an overly negative thing, as long as you aren't bitter about social occlusion, you all are some of the nicest folks I have ever met. It's just a shame you're also some of the people who take the hardest knocks from others.
" @FakePlasticTree said:i dont think you where be kicked in the beanbags over and over for trying to be nice to people if you were not homeschooled. you obviously are very socially awkward. the grammar you used in your conversation. and even in describing your conversation was just odd. and plus dudes dont call each other to ask how they are doing and what theyre up to. people like you are the reason im so against home schooling. even going into a socially repressed private school would at least teach you how to interact with people.Just move on. If this dude doesn't want to be your friend, so be it. "Well yeah, I kind of figured that when I ended the first call. I called again for re-assurance, and I was assured that he actually didn't like me, which is always funny to me, I always try to be nice to people and I get kicked in the beanbags OVER and OVER and OVER again, in some ways I'm glad I'm homeschooled. That doesn't mean I think that all people suck, no no, I'm not a cynic. "
" @emkeighcameron said:And here I thought I was being a nice guy, trying to back up a fellow homie, but no, instead I get nothing but vitriol and personal attacks. I WOULD HANG UP ON YOU TOO, NOW >:|" Hey I was homeschooled tooo *phone rings* huh "If you actually had basic reading skills, you would realize that MARK said "huh?" as the first thing he said, NOT ME. "
" @FakePlasticTree said:Why would you call him back after he hung up on you?Just move on. If this dude doesn't want to be your friend, so be it. "Well yeah, I kind of figured that when I ended the first call. I called again for re-assurance, and I was assured that he actually didn't like me, which is always funny to me, I always try to be nice to people and I get kicked in the beanbags OVER and OVER and OVER again, in some ways I'm glad I'm homeschooled. That doesn't mean I think that all people suck, no no, I'm not a cynic. "
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