I'm kind of in the same boat, but yet again, not really. I was raised going to church every single Sunday, and now I haven't gone for five years or more. I get in many discussions with my parents about god and religion, but the difference between our situations is I recognize the difference between a belief in "god" and adherence to a religion. (Don't assume that you actually know what I mean when I say that)
This is too large of a topic to discuss quickly in a forum, but I guess I'll just try to sum it up (which is probably a bad idea). Essentially, I recognize that atheism today doesn't necessarily mean a rejection of a higher power, but, rather, the rejection of the higher powers that shitty religions put forth. In that sense, I am an atheist. In another sense, though, I'm not really an atheist in the hard definition because I believe in something more abstract. Basically, that science and the rules of the universe, whatever they may be and whatever we may know, or think we know, about them currently, exist. This existence is basically the definition of God in a way. That reality and morality exist is the definition of a higher power than us animals. It's something we can't control, and it just is. Even if our understanding of it changes, it still is, and even if the actually truth of it changes, even if we don't perceive it or understand it, it still is.
So, when you talk to your parents about God and such, try to talk to them in a way that isn't so... antagonistic? Maybe that's not the right word. I guess I mean, don't simply put yourself in the box of being an atheist, because then you are no better than those putting themselves in a religious box. Instead, don't restrict yourself by any stupid definition and just create your own understanding of existence through the acquiring of all knowledge possible while using logic and reason to compare and contrast that knowledge against what you previously understand to be true. Your understanding of our existence and our universe should never be stagnant, so don't try to define something that should be ever changing.
In the end, we are all humans, and what we understand to be true doesn't impact the reality that applies to all of us...unless, of course, it does, and then that opens up a whole other can of worms.
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