Do you believe in "the one" person that is made for you (romantically)? - Question of the Day 9-20-10

naaah, you just happen to find a match ... that's all - 
No cosmic mumbo-jumbo

No. 

I voted no. Even though I believe that God can bring that "one" person into your life. But few people are seeking God and seeking that person through God enough to actually find them. 
 
But both my aunt and uncle who are still married over 30 years later are evidenced that it can happen. In their cases they knew right on sight and the person they found was the exact person down to specific details that they were praying for. My dad was even there the day they met and says my uncle Chuck had literally been talking about her before he met her. 
 
But I think realistically most people will never find that "one" but compromise with a person and still have a happy love life with that person.

Nope, not at all. Hopefully, I won't ever end up with someone like any of my family members though. :(

I thought I did. And hey maybe she is "the one", but I'm going to have to wait.

Most definitely not. humans come in all shapes and forms. You are compatible with some more than others. No one is born just for another.

I'm the one for every girl. That's why I know the truth. :P 
 
*kidding* 
 
People are always changing, and depending of the time you approach them, they have their own unique disposition, that may or may not agree with you for the time. Afterwards it will change. Something like that feels deeply romantic and unreal.

Mathematically impossible. 
 
And if there is just one, we're all destined to be miserable.

That sounds like a religious idea - to think there is one "special" person out there for you. Get a grip!

Nope. As much as it's a lovely idea, especially if you manage to find 'the one', but I don't think it matters - there are so many good matches and you'll never know what 'the one' was like anyway! 
 
Besides, I wouldn't want to be with someone tuned into exactly the same stuff as I am. Different taste in music, films etc and a shared interest in certain things is the best way forward. 

No.

Sure, I'll take all excuses I can get.

yes,at least i believe in that, the one you marry should be "the one." at least im not like the rest of those loveless nerds.

Nah I used to think it was true for my ex but, well, shit happens!

I don't want to fuck Neo, so don't act like I do. As for your romance, there is no one. If I love something, it is only because the chemical balances within my mind have willed it. Once I realize that, I can love anybody I want, can't I?

As of now, no. CAUSE I HAVEN'T FOUND HER YET!!!

Nope.

I'm married and still don't believe in it, even though we are both in love with eachother, I believe "the one" is a ridiculous statement to make.

I believe in "the one of the day"

Yup, and I've been with her for 16 years.

I enjoy the idea of it as a plot device, but in reality I believe that anyone can fall in love with just about anyone else given the right circumstances. 

I believe that I'm destined to find that "someone," if I haven't already.

No. There are most likely plenty of people you are compatible with, it's just a matter of which one you find first.

One person out of billions? Ridiculous.  
 
It has more to do with sharing your interests with somebody who is geographically close to you. 

No "one" out there.  There are plenty of "ones" out there for everybody.  Everybody likes to think they are in THE most magical relationship they could possibly have, but maybe things would be equally or great with four or five other people living only a few miles away from you.  Who knows?

no its more like a handful of possible ones.

Yes..................... there is only one Judi Dench 
    
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No, there's no logic to it.

no.  "fate" and "god" are man-made concepts.

Yep. I've met 4 of them.

kind of.

no, because I am a sane and rational person

Yes. Not in relation to any cosmic mumbo-jumbo though. I just believe that there is someone who's truly perfect for you out there.

it's likely that one human will have a lot in common with another, but i don't believe that any one person is designated the "one."

" I believe in "the one of the day" "

I used to believe it.
 
But now? Nah, load of crap.

Yes and no. I voted yes because I believe there is one person out there who you are meant to be with and compliments you and your shortcomings perfectly. But I don't think they're made for you, just how it worked out.

I'm not a 15 year old girl anymore, so no.

Stopped believing years ago. ...At least, I like to think that,

yes she has light aluminium bones and carbon-fibre skin that responds to my groping touches and she fulfils my romantic needs with her linear matrix optimisations and transpositions she's always quiet and smiling and just looking at me never speaking and some days she teaches me the Spanish language

Cant say that i do, you can find anyone at any point and make them the one, to me the one is whoever you are with.  If you care enough for that person not to cheat on them then youll only ever need one, searching endlessley for some perfect person will only cause you to be unhappy and in the end alone.

Absolutely not.

Statistically impossible. Many people profess to have found their "one", many more than should on a planet with more than 6 billion. Love is freeform enough to allow for many people that meet your "one" criteria.

It's nice to think about, but ultimately it'll just make you second guess every serious romantic relationship you have.  I've slowly learnt over time that the person you're supposed to end up with is the one your happiest around regardless if you are perfect matches.

i do. but i believe there are many of them.