I think a lot of people are going to have some body issues to a certain extent; after all, we all are our own biggest critics.
On a personal level, yeah, I do. Duder, will be turning 32 this year. I've always been fairly slim when viewed by others, but some considered me too small as I wasn't stocky like the boys/men from their hometown. Eventually I started gaining weight and getting fatter (I always had a bit of a gut post-high school) about a year or two ago, to the point where it got a bit out of control even for me.
I'm Asian and am only really average height at 5'9", but at a certain point I was probably over 176 lbs which put me into the overweight category. I started working out around June of last year, trying to maintain a "schedule" of going to the gym at least twice a week, and it has done wonders. I still have some belly fat to get rid of but overall I've toned up and gotten some definition on my arms. In terms of weight, I only dropped around 10 lbs (I'm usually hovering around 165 lbs these days) but I've replaced a lot of fat with muscle and that's the more important part. I've also dropped into the healthy weight range for my height, so I'm happy about that, but I'm going to keep working out.
Seeing the difference working out has done has definitely kept me motivated, but another part was just not being able to accept what was going on. I was 31 and getting so out of shape that I would be out of breath even walking to the mall across the street (about a 5-10 minute walk) or even walking up the small incline to get back to where I lived... at 31!! That wasn't acceptable to me and I wanted to be sure I was in good health so I would be around longer to take care of the family I hope to have one day, so that drove me more than anything to start getting in shape.
It can be difficult to accept you for you but take it slow, one step at a time, and work towards feeling comfortable with yourself. Don't try to compare yourself with others, especially celebrities, because a lot of times such things are extremely hard for the average person to attain. Of course Hugh Jackman is going to look amazing as Wolverine because he's going to have personal trainers and dieticians telling him what to do and what to eat, and he's going to be doing that everyday until he looks that good because it's his job. We don't have that luxury so we can only make do with what we got and to try and stop comparing ourselves against the so-called "ideal."
Log in to comment