Would you marry a pornstar?

Hmmm. Good question. If the pornstar in question was met normally just like I meet any other girls, and fall for her personality, then yeah, if she was willing to put it past her and move on. But with one who'd want to stay in the porn business? No. I have certain standards.

I prefer not locking down my life by getting married so no.

" Despite being told that I'm quite a prude, I've actually put some thought into this question before. Ultimately, I think the answer is yes. Of course, not just any pornstar, but there are a couple I really like. However, she'd have to go the Tera Patrick route. Tera Patrick is now married to Evan Seinfeld, the bassist from Biohazard (he was featured in VH1's Super Group) and she only makes adult movies with her husband, no other guys.. He's also like the director of the videos and her primary photographer. Homeboy is living the life right now. What guy could say no to an opportunity like that? "

 Only if she would love me back and willing to find another line of work, like car designer or crocodile hunter.

@Vinchenzo said:

" @HitmanAgent47 said:

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Probally not.

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I  see you as the type of guy who would marry a diseased prostitute. "

Depends on the circumstances but most likely no.

" Ex -porn star? Sure, everyone has skeletons.Current?...No. "

" First, when you ask a question Iraqi_gangster, please at least say something about it. Promote discussion. In the future, all topics where the author says nothing will be locked. Anyways, I would not. The way I see it, she is throwing away her dignity and disgracing and objectifying fellow women for a pay check. There is much beauty to be found on the inside, and if her career is exploiting her own physical beauty, then she has destroyed any remnant of inner beauty that she may have once posessed.
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" If I loved her, Sure. Love is a strange thing. All these people saying "no" would change their minds instantly if they fell in love with a pornstar. "

This is a good question that I've thought about before. I'd have to go with yes because I'm a personality person. If they were wonderful then absolutely. I don't think it would bother me too much. Softcore is better than hardcore though.

how does the phrase go? 
you can't make a ho a housewife?

" Think of the awkward family dinners. "

I kind of want to believe that love can overcome anything, but I don't know. As long as the relationship works and is great than I don't think it matters what her work is, but that's easy to say, honestly I bet I would be too jealous to share my love with dozens of others.

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@Vinchenzo said:

" @HitmanAgent47 said:

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Probally not.

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I  see you as the type of guy who would marry a diseased prostitute. "

 

I always seen you as the type who will marry their own right hand and a picture of someone you claim is your girlfriend. "

An ex pornstar, sure, but I'd have to see her medical records first. As for a current pornstar, I don't think I could be married to a woman whose job was to have sex with tons of men who were not me. That's just bad news.

I see no advantages in marrying a pornstar. The sexlife is an important factor in the game of love and if you weren't bothered about her being fucked by fitter blokes than you - then you'll be bothered when you want to get close and she replies with "Oh no honey, I've been doing this all day"

The only way is if I didn't know about her career while dating here.  If after such time I find I am in love with her, and sexually able to keep up with her, sure I guess I'd bunk up with her.

This topic is 2 years old? Whaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa-

" @HitmanAgent47 said:

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@Vinchenzo said:

" @HitmanAgent47 said:

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Probally not.

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I  see you as the type of guy who would marry a diseased prostitute. "

 

I always seen you as the type who will marry their own right hand and a picture of someone you claim is your girlfriend. "

BOOM!  "

I like BOOBIES!!!!!!   
 
So yes

No. Who would touch a woman that has at least tasted 30 different flavors of dick? And that's not even the worst of it.

Wood, you?

If I really loved her/him with all my heart and they felt the same way about me then of course I would. You love who you love. In this particular instance of them being a porn star I think I would have to have them retire from the industry because of the nature of the industry. It just wouldn't feel right to me, but if we got far enough in a relationship that we were considering marriage I think the topic of them doing porn would have been settled by then.

" I prefer not locking down my life by getting married so no. "

Most porn stars look like crap to me, but if I wanted to marry one, I doubt it would stop me.

ng for women to do it because they throw away their dignity, and disgrace and objectify fellow women.... but its perfectly okay for guys?  Sexist much?  I take it back... most of this thread is sexist.  If a woman is in the porn industry, she's a slut, a skank, objectified, etc, etc.  If a man is in the porn industry he's... what... a stud?  Goddamn men and their double standards.  "

Who the fuck bumped this abomination of a thread?

" Who the fuck bumped this abomination of a thread? "

" @melcene said:

ng for women to do it because they throw away their dignity, and disgrace and objectify fellow women.... but its perfectly okay for guys?  Sexist much?  I take it back... most of this thread is sexist.  If a woman is in the porn industry, she's a slut, a skank, objectified, etc, etc.  If a man is in the porn industry he's... what... a stud?  Goddamn men and their double standards.  "

Might want to fix that last line lady. Lumping all men in with fuck heads who think like that makes you just as sexist as the people you hate. Two sides of the same coin.   But I forgot, only men can be sexist right? You know, that double standard that women have towards men.  "

" Ex -porn star? Sure, everyone has skeletons.Current?...No. "

No

I don't think I'd marry anyone because I don't believe in monogamy, but I wouldn't say no to a long-term relationship with a pornstar if I liked her for her personality.

" @crusader8463 said:

" @melcene said:

ng for women to do it because they throw away their dignity, and disgrace and objectify fellow women.... but its perfectly okay for guys?  Sexist much?  I take it back... most of this thread is sexist.  If a woman is in the porn industry, she's a slut, a skank, objectified, etc, etc.  If a man is in the porn industry he's... what... a stud?                                           "

Might want to fix that last line lady. Lumping all men in with fuck heads who think like that makes you just as sexist as the people you hate. Two sides of the same coin.   But I forgot, only men can be sexist right? You know, that double standard that women have towards men.  "

I never said all men.  But if I must specify:  men/boys who go on about how women pornstars have no dignity, are a disgrace, are merely objectified, are sluts, skanks, and whatever else.... but don't even consider that the same could or should be applied to men.  Goddamn them.  There have been some good posts in this thread from guys who actually consider the love aspect of marriage, and the profession aspect of the porn industry.  Then there are the guys that only care that a woman's had "30 different flavors of dick."  But if a guy has had 30 different flavors of women, it's supposed to be perfectly acceptable to whatever woman they end up with? Personally, I don't think these people (male or female) have no dignity, or are a disgrace, etc etc.   It's their choice in life. "

" I'm not directing this towards you specifically, but it's just as frustrating/annoying when men like myself who do treat women as equals have to listen to the sexist ones go on and on about the evils of all men, and then have them fly off the handle when we point out to them that they are the ones being sexist. You want to talk about double standards? See what happens when a man points out that a women is being sexist and have every dam person jump on them and call them a sexist ass hole because he had the audacity to call the lady on her shit.  I can't begin to count how many time that has happened to me, and how I have had to just sit there and listen to a bunch of sexist women degrade and insult me just because I was born with a dick between my legs instead of a vagina. "

I think the OP might be overestimating the looks of the people on these forums. 
 
Unless your talking about washed up 70's male porn stars.

" I think the OP might be overestimating the looks of the people on these forums.  Unless your talking about washed up 70's porn stars. "

" @crusader8463:  Nah, I'm not like a feminist or anything.  I'm just very much the type of person that believes what's good for the goose is good for the gander, in most things.  I'm kinda more of an anti-feminist honestly.  But, one thing that bothers me is when men are allowed to be sexually explicit, or deviant or whatever you want to throw in there relating to sex, and women have to be quiet prudes until our man says "Hey woman, dress/act like a slut for me tonight."   (Not in so many words obviously.)  Ah well.  I seriously doubt that every person in this thread who professed their ill opinion of porn actresses has virgin eyes. "

Son of a BITCH. 
 
At least perform your devilish thread-necromancy on good threads.

" @crusader8463 said:

" I'm not directing this towards you specifically, but it's just as frustrating/annoying when men like myself who do treat women as equals have to listen to the sexist ones go on and on about the evils of all men, and then have them fly off the handle when we point out to them that they are the ones being sexist. You want to talk about double standards? See what happens when a man points out that a women is being sexist and have every dam person jump on them and call them a sexist ass hole because he had the audacity to call the lady on her shit.  I can't begin to count how many time that has happened to me, and how I have had to just sit there and listen to a bunch of sexist women degrade and insult me just because I was born with a dick between my legs instead of a vagina. "

That's a fair point, but , well, why would you give the time of day to anyone simple enough to be predjudiced like that against an entire gender? "

" I didn't care about one way or another, but I was in a position where I had to work with several women like that and since they sat right next to me I had to listen to it 24/7. Also had a couple instances of women like that when I was in High School, a couple teachers too, and was stuck in several classes with them all day and had to listen to it all the time. I think that's why I feel so strongly about it.   I have had to listen to it all my life, and every time I have spoken up and asked them to stop talking like that and pointed out how it made them hypocrites everyone in ear shot would always jump to their defence and gang up on me like I just pulled a knife on them or something. "

I would, probably. But I'd still be really insecure about her going off having sex with men with bigger dicks than me. But I guess that's her job. 
 
Oh, what am I saying? The only love of my life is Winnie Cooper, and I'm still holding out hope that I'll run into her one day.

You know what would be my fear with a male pornstar (besides STDs)?  That he can't get it up for someone he loves.  Only for the camera.  

Nope. I already learned a lesson with loving a whore.

yes. yes i would.

" You know what would be my fear with a male pornstar (besides STDs)?  That he can't get it up for someone he loves.  Only for the camera.   "