My family simply doesn't do that, so, no, I don't.
It's not even a societal thing with us, it's just that on my mum's side of the family, everyone is super tight-knit and whenever any of us meet, it's hardcore fucking party drinking murder on our brain cells, so we don't say I love you there because we're all too drunk (unless we get *really* fucked up in which case, slurred "I Love You, Man" between me and my alcoholic uncle is all anyone will hear)
My Dad's side of the family is weirdly distant...we only ever see my Grandad with regularity and everybody else is maybe once or twice every two years. I think I'm the only one in my family to catch up with any of those relatives by Facebook, let alone in person. So yeah, we don't get too deep into emotive territory there.
But I know my Dad knows I love him. The things I say to him and the way I am with him, him being the first person I go to when I don't know what to do with my life and the last person I want to let down...I don't hide any of that, I just don't say those particular words.
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