God, today should have been so perfect too. I need to vent out my anguish over today's events, so I'm hoping you'll read my story, and tell me of a time you got screwed over with bad timing to. Enjoy...
So, there's this girl I really like. Liked. She has so much in common with me, she's cute, plays the occasional video game, and best quality of all, she liked spending time with me. However, she's not without flaws. She has some emotional baggage from her previous relationship. So, we have hung out as friends a few times over the summer, but today I got the stones to ask her out on an actual date, and she said yes. Awesome right? Well I took her to see Scott Pilgrim, which was actually a pretty good movie btw, and then I took her back to my place. We unwinded a bit, maybe had a drink or two, who knows. And then before I knew it she was on my bed and i was on top of her, stroking her hair, about to kiss this beautiful girl that I was crazy about. And as a 16 year old high school kid, who loves playing video games and chooses to vent on the internets at giantbomb, I am a virgin, and she however is not. So tonight could have been really awesome.
But right as I was about to kiss her, her phone started vibrating. I asked her not to answer it but, she thought it might be her mom. So she checked her phone and what do you know? Her ex boyfriend from the afore-mentioned relationship txted her saying "Hi baby, how are you? I really miss you, and need you right now" They have been broken up for like 6 months, and she dumped him, for a frame of reference. Anyway, she then squirmed out from under me, and stood frozen staring at her phone. I asked if she was okay and.... she broke down crying. Since the night was pretty much ruined, I tried to salvage what little I could and tried to comfort her. She cried on my shoulder and told me, she's still in love with him and that she's sorry. And then proceed to leave my house. But, not without making me walk her to the train. Aaaand, if this wasn't enough, I just found out from a mutual friend that, she is spending the night as his house.... AWESOME right?
Anyway, thank you for reading this to whomever took the time to do so. It'd be awesome if you guys would post any stories you have of bad timing screwing you over. As a community, let's share these stories, or at the very least to make me feel better. :] Well thanks again for reading.
Has bad timing every screwed you over?
God, today should have been so perfect too. I need to vent out my anguish over today's events, so I'm hoping you'll read my story, and tell me of a time you got screwed over with bad timing to. Enjoy...
So, there's this girl I really like. Liked. She has so much in common with me, she's cute, plays the occasional video game, and best quality of all, she liked spending time with me. However, she's not without flaws. She has some emotional baggage from her previous relationship. So, we have hung out as friends a few times over the summer, but today I got the stones to ask her out on an actual date, and she said yes. Awesome right? Well I took her to see Scott Pilgrim, which was actually a pretty good movie btw, and then I took her back to my place. We unwinded a bit, maybe had a drink or two, who knows. And then before I knew it she was on my bed and i was on top of her, stroking her hair, about to kiss this beautiful girl that I was crazy about. And as a 16 year old high school kid, who loves playing video games and chooses to vent on the internets at giantbomb, I am a virgin, and she however is not. So tonight could have been really awesome.
But right as I was about to kiss her, her phone started vibrating. I asked her not to answer it but, she thought it might be her mom. So she checked her phone and what do you know? Her ex boyfriend from the afore-mentioned relationship txted her saying "Hi baby, how are you? I really miss you, and need you right now" They have been broken up for like 6 months, and she dumped him, for a frame of reference. Anyway, she then squirmed out from under me, and stood frozen staring at her phone. I asked if she was okay and.... she broke down crying. Since the night was pretty much ruined, I tried to salvage what little I could and tried to comfort her. She cried on my shoulder and told me, she's still in love with him and that she's sorry. And then proceed to leave my house. But, not without making me walk her to the train. Aaaand, if this wasn't enough, I just found out from a mutual friend that, she is spending the night as his house.... AWESOME right?
Anyway, thank you for reading this to whomever took the time to do so. It'd be awesome if you guys would post any stories you have of bad timing screwing you over. As a community, let's share these stories, or at the very least to make me feel better. :] Well thanks again for reading.
It starts off only being mildly shitty.
I was grounded because I was failing all of my classes. I was turning 17 years old that day. My birthday is on Veterans day but because I was going to a community college I had to go to school anyway and fail some more because I'm not a smart kid. I had a bad headache that day so It was hard to drive and stay awake all day. I do home and find out my family went to Mcdonalds because they had the day off and got me nothing. My mom however refrained from telling me how useless, stupid, and disappointing I was since it was my birthday. I was sad all day and my parents tell me to just get over it because my grandfather just found out he had cancer.
How would my grandfather having cancer on my birthday make me feel good.
And I'm glad now, too, because as time went by I started to see how much of a horrible person she was turning out to be. I realized that a lot of what I thought I liked, was actually just my refusal to see anything but the good in her. Basically, she was too hot for me. At least at that time. I've grown a lot since then and I honestly see her as a lesser being now.
But, eh, bad timing? Not really. Usually for me it's just bad everything else.
It was like 9 months ago. A lot of good has happened since then. It's just that sometimes when it rains it pours to borrow an old cliche.
My mom has even been toning down her disappointment speeches.
You should see a witch-doctor. He'd fix you right up. ^^" @lordbazuco: I have a very peculiar thing that happens to me, if i stay up after 2:30 am, shit hits the fan. I don't know why, but its like i'm cursed, its like my brain turns to "don't give a fuck" and i start saying everything thats on my mind and can't focus due to sleep deprivation, and trust me, the effects are never good. I've lost friends, jobs, girlfriends, and the occasional dog. "
@lordbazuco: That's how people are. Inconsiderate and selfish. Get used to it, kid. :p
awww man that really sucks. i think you shouldn't talk to her for a while. sucks that, that happened.
here is a story of i couldn't get a girl. i was hanging out at school. i was in the game room playing some pool. there was a hot girl that i saw. for couple of weeks should would be there. she finally introduced herself to me. me and marisa would have small talk between classes in the game room. halo 3 came out so sometimes instead of hanging out i would go home to play it. one day i had to stay at school to study for a test. she was nice enough to say i could come hang out with her friends ( guys). they were talking about halo 3. i thought that was hot. i never saw her again after that. i would see her sometimes with a quick hi. i never got to ask her for her number or anythign.
" @lordbazuco: And also, she can walk herself to the fucking train.Lol. Thanks for making me laugh. And yea, you're right, she will definitely pull this shit again if I let her. I guess my best option is to cut my losses, and move on, before I waste anymore time.
Sucks that this shit happens to people so often. It hasn't happened to me personally (yet?), but I would never talk to that bitch again if I were you.
" @bassboy2100: She may have been the first girl I've ever wanted a relationship more then I wanted to fuck her. But dammit, I would be feeling so much better if I at least got something out of it. Eh I don't wanna sound insensitive though w.e she's got issues. "Oh, so you're mainly upset over blue-ballin'?
/jk
Yeah that sucks, and happens a lo tmore than anyone would like to admit. And they don't seem to grow out of that until....what mid 30's? Just do yourself a favor, chalk it up to shitty misfortune, but be glad that you probably dodged a bullet. Move on.
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