"Yes, its one of those threads lol. So there is this girl I like that I have been talking to the past 3 and a half weeks. She is a freshmen I am a sophmore. Tonight is the football jamboree for our school and I was thinking about asking her out. Well what should I do?So tonight at the jamboree IF she is there I was going to ask her either A) to the movie or B) to be my girlfriend. Which one do you think I should do? If I ask her to the movie, this means I will take it slower and she may either take it as I will eventually ask her out, or she won't know I like her and could go on to another guy. She is quite the popular freshmen. If I ask her out then she might say no because she doesn't want a boyfriend or she may think we haven't talked enough(if that matters). I don't know what to do, what would you do?"
Uhh, you have barely talked? I am afraid that matters buddy. Show her you have a giant bomb account. Ooooh yeah.
"Yes, its one of those threads lol. So there is this girl I like that I have been talking to the past 3 and a half weeks. She is a freshmen I am a sophmore. Tonight is the football jamboree for our school and I was thinking about asking her out. Well what should I do?So tonight at the jamboree IF she is there I was going to ask her either A) to the movie or B) to be my girlfriend. Which one do you think I should do? If I ask her to the movie, this means I will take it slower and she may either take it as I will eventually ask her out, or she won't know I like her and could go on to another guy. She is quite the popular freshmen. If I ask her out then she might say no because she doesn't want a boyfriend or she may think we haven't talked enough(if that matters). I don't know what to do, what would you do?"
Dude, waaay to fast. Bump into her or sit next to her or something, and just casually talk to her, slowly but gradually switch the conversation to movies, without her noticing, you dont want to seem to despreate or as if you already had something on your mind. Then again, casually change the direction of the conversation as you are tlking about movies, or something about film, and ask her if she wants to go see a movie later. If she says no im busy, do NOT say 'oh, well how about X day instead?', no means no. Ask her if she is sure, again gently, and just casually say something along the lines of 'alright no problem, hopefully another time then', just dont seem too desperate...
Carry the convo, etc, maker her laugh a bit. Just be a guy. Eventually you can pick something up with the whole movies thing. Once you are at that step, just do the action at the movies, nothing too fast, but stay in that 'nice to be around' kinda mood, and she'll get onto ya.
"Yes, its one of those threads lol. So there is this girl I like that I have been talking to the past 3 and a half weeks. She is a freshmen I am a sophmore. Tonight is the football jamboree for our school and I was thinking about asking her out. Well what should I do?So tonight at the jamboree IF she is there I was going to ask her either A) to the movie or B) to be my girlfriend. Which one do you think I should do? If I ask her to the movie, this means I will take it slower and she may either take it as I will eventually ask her out, or she won't know I like her and could go on to another guy. She is quite the popular freshmen. If I ask her out then she might say no because she doesn't want a boyfriend or she may think we haven't talked enough(if that matters). I don't know what to do, what would you do?"
Dude, waaay to fast. Bump into her or sit next to her or something, and just casually talk to her, slowly but gradually switch the conversation to movies, without her noticing, you dont want to seem to despreate or as if you already had something on your mind. Then again, casually change the direction of the conversation as you are tlking about movies, or something about film, and ask her if she wants to go see a movie later. If she says no im busy, do NOT say 'oh, well how about X day instead?', no means no. Ask her if she is sure, again gently, and just casually say something along the lines of 'alright no problem, hopefully another time then', just dont seem too desperate...
Carry the convo, etc, maker her laugh a bit. Just be a guy. Eventually you can pick something up with the whole movies thing. Once you are at that step, just do the action at the movies, nothing too fast, but stay in that 'nice to be around' kinda mood, and she'll get onto ya."
"Yes, its one of those threads lol. So there is this girl I like that I have been talking to the past 3 and a half weeks. She is a freshmen I am a sophmore. Tonight is the football jamboree for our school and I was thinking about asking her out. Well what should I do?So tonight at the jamboree IF she is there I was going to ask her either A) to the movie or B) to be my girlfriend. Which one do you think I should do? If I ask her to the movie, this means I will take it slower and she may either take it as I will eventually ask her out, or she won't know I like her and could go on to another guy. She is quite the popular freshmen. If I ask her out then she might say no because she doesn't want a boyfriend or she may think we haven't talked enough(if that matters). I don't know what to do, what would you do?"
Dude, waaay to fast. Bump into her or sit next to her or something, and just casually talk to her, slowly but gradually switch the conversation to movies, without her noticing, you dont want to seem to despreate or as if you already had something on your mind. Then again, casually change the direction of the conversation as you are tlking about movies, or something about film, and ask her if she wants to go see a movie later. If she says no im busy, do NOT say 'oh, well how about X day instead?', no means no. Ask her if she is sure, again gently, and just casually say something along the lines of 'alright no problem, hopefully another time then', just dont seem too desperate...
Carry the convo, etc, maker her laugh a bit. Just be a guy. Eventually you can pick something up with the whole movies thing. Once you are at that step, just do the action at the movies, nothing too fast, but stay in that 'nice to be around' kinda mood, and she'll get onto ya."
Fuckk, my buddy had the exact same problem 2 weeks ago. They started talking at the end on June, he walked her home, gave her his jacket,..... all the gay shit. He finally got the nuts to ask her out and got a pretty harsh no. So he was a bitch for a week WAH WAH WAH SHE DOSENT LOVE ME WAH WAH WAH. So everytime we talked on MSN i told him the chick is currently sucking my cock and he would start laffin n shit. My moral of this stupid story is Just Do It, if u win ur dating a girl u like and if u lose then its not on ur mind nemore. I personally think its way to early to ask her to be ur girlfriend, but if theres a big spark than yah its cool. You should just take her to the movies and if u guys go on a second date then ask her, imo.
"Movie. And BTW she's not as popular as you might think. I've known her for about a year and a half now."
Are you serious or trying to be funny?"
No he is serious I know PaperPlain in real life. And I didn't mean like REALLY Popular I meant more along the lines of in that crowd.Sentry said:
"Why_So_Serious said:
"Yes, its one of those threads lol. So there is this girl I like that I have been talking to the past 3 and a half weeks. She is a freshmen I am a sophmore. Tonight is the football jamboree for our school and I was thinking about asking her out. Well what should I do?So tonight at the jamboree IF she is there I was going to ask her either A) to the movie or B) to be my girlfriend. Which one do you think I should do? If I ask her to the movie, this means I will take it slower and she may either take it as I will eventually ask her out, or she won't know I like her and could go on to another guy. She is quite the popular freshmen. If I ask her out then she might say no because she doesn't want a boyfriend or she may think we haven't talked enough(if that matters). I don't know what to do, what would you do?"
Dude, waaay to fast. Bump into her or sit next to her or something, and just casually talk to her, slowly but gradually switch the conversation to movies, without her noticing, you dont want to seem to despreate or as if you already had something on your mind. Then again, casually change the direction of the conversation as you are tlking about movies, or something about film, and ask her if she wants to go see a movie later. If she says no im busy, do NOT say 'oh, well how about X day instead?', no means no. Ask her if she is sure, again gently, and just casually say something along the lines of 'alright no problem, hopefully another time then', just dont seem too desperate...
Carry the convo, etc, maker her laugh a bit. Just be a guy. Eventually you can pick something up with the whole movies thing. Once you are at that step, just do the action at the movies, nothing too fast, but stay in that 'nice to be around' kinda mood, and she'll get onto ya."
I pussed out at the jamboree she was always with like 10 people and it weird if I pull her away or just barge in and start talking to her. Maybe this week.
"Yes, its one of those threads lol. So there is this girl I like that I have been talking to the past 3 and a half weeks. She is a freshmen I am a sophmore. Tonight is the football jamboree for our school and I was thinking about asking her out. Well what should I do?So tonight at the jamboree IF she is there I was going to ask her either A) to the movie or B) to be my girlfriend. Which one do you think I should do? If I ask her to the movie, this means I will take it slower and she may either take it as I will eventually ask her out, or she won't know I like her and could go on to another guy. She is quite the popular freshmen. If I ask her out then she might say no because she doesn't want a boyfriend or she may think we haven't talked enough(if that matters). I don't know what to do, what would you do?"
Movie but let her know you're interested or she may take it as a kind gesture and could end up with someone else a week later.
Just go up to her, casually and say "hey- do you want to hang out, like go to the mall or catch a movie?". Low pressure, just an invitation from a friend to a friend. Easy as pie.
What I would say was don't over think it. If you come up with a planned phrase youll likely forget it, then get nervous because your forgot it. Just be natural. And I would suggest the movie, then if the movie goes well, at the end ask her out
Sheee-it. Why stall? Just tell her that you think she's got a great smile and that you like to hear what she has to talk about & you want to spend more time with her by going out on dates...that way you don't have to be direct (be my girlfriend?) & you don't have to be slow (go to a movie?). If she says: is it a date to your movie invite, say YES! Don't let their be a gray area. I think a lot of women like you to be quick about your motives, not slow. If you're slow, then somebody else can move in while you're still...building up your confidence.
If she says No, then you can go back to what you're doing. It's better to be quick about it. If you build up & think about it too long, and then she says no, you'll be miserable for a long time afterwards.
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