I suggest not thinking of it as such a finite thing, at first. The hardest part is beating yourself up for slipping, it just stresses you out and makes you want to smoke more. Slow it down, alternate every smoke you want, try not to fill the gap with heavy foods. For the oral fixation, try hard candies, regular gum, toothpicks, get a tongue ring, your options are endless really. For your hands, shuffling cards (weird, but I find it soothing), a clicky pen (might be annoying to some but who cares, it's for the greater good of you), knitting (as Undeadpool mentioned, it really is easy but if you're the type to get frustrated fast I suggest something you already know). If you smoke at home, try eliminating the rooms you smoke in, one by one, until you have to go outside. Work out! I can't stress that enough, if you start to feel good about yourself physically some part of you will want more of that and less of the destructive stuff. And remember it's hard. Also, never make it your new year's resolution, I found that it was too much pressure and I just ended up smoking more before the end, making it harder to quit when the day arose.
Well, everyone is different so try a few things and see what works better for you.
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