To quote Jerry Seinfeld:
I really feel as human beings, we need more training in our basic social skills. Conversational distance: don't you hate these people that when they talk to you they talk into your mouth like you're a clown at a drive-through? And hand shakes are the worst. There's absolutely no guidelines for hand shakes. You know these people? Too long, too weak... sometimes they give you the three-quarter handshake - just the fingers. Early release, late release. Sometimes people will dispute your release! You let go, they're hanging on! I have actually said to people, "Hey the handshake is over!" Too many pumps, coming in too high, too sweaty, coming from too far away. Sometimes a guy will give you a strong grip, late release, and pull you in for the too close conversation. To him I say, "That's three strikes you're out."
Loose-grip or weak-grip handshakes are the worst. The so-called 'limp fish' handshakes, as I believe one Alex Navarro termed it. I myself suffer from sweaty hand syndrome, but, don't worry, I always make sure to wipe my right hand when I know that there's an incoming handshake. Although of the above options, I have to say that coming in from too far away really takes the cake. I've been in a handshake situation when I've seen the guy coming in from about twenty feet away, nodding his head, hand outstretched while he's still walking. Okay, so we've got to shake hands. What are you, desperate?
In any case, I guess socially-speaking, sweating is the most reprehensible.
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