First, it's terrible that people are harassing this person for expressing her beliefs. It makes no sense to do that.
That said, I just watched her Ms. Male Character video on YouTube, and was utterly unimpressed with her arguments. I am married, have two daughters, and I can tell you, my daughters love wearing bows and feminine objects on themselves. They love it. They identify with it. It makes them feel girly, pretty, happy, and therefore, like who they are.
Whenever I hear "feminists" talk about things that offend them, like bows in the hair of too many video game characters, I can never get past the fact that they seem to think there's something wrong with being girly, or there being things that are inherently feminine, and therefore used as tropes to define femininity. So the majority of women and girls LIKE to wear makeup and be defined as feminine. Don't get me wrong, if my daughters grow up and don't want to be associated with those feminine tropes, good on em'. I don't care one way or the other. If they relish being girls, and wearing bows, and makeup, same deal, good for them.
She talks about using pink, or bows to devalue the characters as women. I just don't agree that that is the intent, or the result. I think there are a few people out there who will find offense with it, but I think those people are a tiny minority, and we can't orient our society to not offend anyone. She is certainly welcome to disagree with that opinion, and nobody should threaten or harass her for her opinions. Disputing them, refuting them, or disagreeing with them isn't sexist, it isn't wrong, and people who disagree should equally not be harassed.
I mean, everything in society is geared towards male and female. The English language itself is. Men and women when taken as a whole have real differences. Physically, emotionally, and in terms of what they put on their bodies. Does that mean EVERYONE does? No. The vast majority do though. And there's absolutely, positively nothing wrong with it. Men and women are different. Good. It makes life interesting.
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