@jaytow: you should probably address the things youre stressed about, say you got a pile of letters on your table youre terrified to open. Open 1. Maybe the next day open another, maybe 2. Your brain works on fight or flight, if your reaction to something is to panic, youll tend to panic consistently unless you train your brain to not do that. Hope that helps.
Edit - i see a lot of people writing that YOU need to get her therapy. Why would YOU need to do that, shes a damn adult, if she doesnt recognize the things she is doing is wrong or want to change at all, therapy isnt going to do her any good. It for sure isnt YOUR place to make her do that nor your responsibility.
Original post - Talk about how unhappy you are with her, listen to her, if you dont like what she has to say, break up. Life is short, my dude, you should make it the best you can for yourself and the ones you love. Your partner should be someone who wants good things for you, not someone who makes you miserable. Youre not being selfish, youre being intelligent. If you do decide to seperate its probably going to feel awful, but take responsibility for your decisions and know that you will be better off. Feel free to pm me if you want to talk.
@frytup: i was mostly just being dismissive of the guys comment implicating because theyre non profit, they are doing nothing wrong. But, it was shitty of me. Thanks for replying.
The pain i assume was from weight plus just trying to "young stud" everything physical. Ive heard sugar is naturally an inflammatory so assumed it was because of that, but it very well couldve been from losing weight. Im a mailman so my right shoulder and elbow are kinda jacked up but its because it wont heal due to repeated stress. Ill probably end up having to take a month or so off work, but...eh. i was also in a pretty gnarly car accident when i was in my early 20s (drunk driver rear-ended us going about 50mph while we were stopped at a red light), always figured my back pain was due to that as well.
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