been playing some MAG today last 2 games i've been disconnected from the game after like 20 mins play and get no XP from it WTF is going on

Problem with your local internet? 

nope im still always signed in PSN and net works the game just discconects me like 20 mins in sucks

i always say ---> third time's the charm?  I hoping that never becomes a real problem.  Love that game!

It's happened to me a few times, I was playing last night and a few times it says "server shutting down" or "unable to connect to server". It only happened later in the night though. Say around 1am Uk time.

i played from 12 midnight - 2:30am central time with no lag and no drops.  That shit runs amazingly well.   Zipper does a server update every weekday from 3am-4am eastern time or something like that.   i wish i would have written it down, the game tells you when the scheduled maintenace is when you first boot up the first time you play.

the game just came out, give it time to breath

I've been having this problem too. Once just a few seconds before we won the match (I play Raven so a win is a rare occurrence). I would like to achieve something in the game every now and then.   
 
Is it possible that the game is being hosted through one player, so if they quit we all suffer (like MW2)?

the game runs on dedicated servers.

Check your internet speed and latency.