So I have a friend I have known for about 20 years and we always have fun together, but anytime we go out to eat or even eat at one of our homes he chews with his mouth open loudly and doesn't care to look right at you and talk while chewing. He's also fond of being rather free with belching, and it's disgusting and embarrassing.
If anything is said about it he just says "Oh the fuck well."
What to do? I tried recording his chewing on a mini recorder to play it back to him but there was too much static. I'm out of ideas.
I hate eating with my friend
Next time you eat with anyone, stare at their mouth and listen. It can't be unseen/unheard. It is the most disturbing thing in the world.
I have no idea what to tell you.... I have the same problem. I have some friends who horrible when it comes to chewing their food. Oh and don't get me started on my brother....I can't be around him when he eats. I hope you figure something out for your own sanity because nothing I do works...
Bring a gun and place it on the table in front of him. Make it very clear what will happen if he chews with his mouth open or talks while eating.
Mirror his behavior and if he ask you about it, just say i'm copying you. Maybe he would get the msg.
Do it back to him in a really exaggerated fashion, not just for a few seconds a couple of minutes. If that doesn't work then try and puke up in your own mouth a bit and say "Look, I just puked up in my own mouth" and show it to him. Put your fingers in your mouth and get some of the sick on it and then tell how much it stinks and offer him a smell.
There are probably more diplomatic solutions I'm not aware of, mind you.
" Also, shoot an email to the McElboys over at MBMBaM - I'm sure they'll solve your problem faster than you can say "close your mouth you uncouth fuck." "this. mbmbam rules
" eat your friend "@buzz_clik said:
" Spike his food with rat poison. "These are both reasonable and sane solutions to your problem, no need to take any others into consideration.
" I'm sure you haven't confronted him . Insult it him while he's chewing . The awkward silence will make you hear the GULP . Be glad you have a friend and stop bitching if you have moved to a new place and lost contact with your old friends you will know what I'm talking about . "Don't even go there; I've spent 3/4 of my adult life hundreds sometimes thousands of miles from anyone I knew. The fact is a 35-year-old should have more social tact than a 5-year-old.
"That, or a lot of time they will think you are just over-exaggerating and get even more pissy about it.Mirror his behavior and if he ask you about it, just say i'm copying you. Maybe he would get the msg.
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" Say you disgust me and everyone around you. Act like a civil human being and get some manors. "This. May I recommend the Benedictin Abbey Manor? http://www.houses-and-castles.co.uk/buy-sale-manor-house-region-o-department-o-1-1-0.htm
Destroy his appetite so he never wants to eat again. I suggest starting with a picture of Joan Rivers.
" Do it back to him in a really exaggerated fashion, not just for a few seconds a couple of minutes. If that doesn't work then try and puke up in your own mouth a bit and say "Look, I just puked up in my own mouth" and show it to him. Put your fingers in your mouth and get some of the sick on it and then tell how much it stinks and offer him a smell. There are probably more diplomatic solutions I'm not aware of, mind you. "@Hamst3r said:
" Masturbate into his mouth. "Both, very good suggestions.
I initially thought you said you hate eating your friend. LOL. Now that I read it, I've had similar issues with my older brother. :(
Kidnap him and then repeatedly subjugate him to violent sexual assaults and agonising physical torture, over a period of about 35 years.
That should solve the problem.
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