Dude, just go for it and everything is going to be fine. I met my girlfriend through tinder as well. We weren't looking for anything on the app, more like trying to see what the hell is all the fuss about, we wrote some messages to each other and met up after a few days of talking. And I got to say, never been happier with a girl in my life. Tinder might seem like a weird place to get a girlfriend, since it's mainly seen as a hook-up app, with good reasons honestly, but there are definitely plenty of guys and girls on there that are really good human beings. And don't stretch it out too much, after I've talked with my girlfriend about the whole Tinder beginnings, she said that if I hadn't asked her out after writing between ourselves for like 5 days, then she would've probably just moved on. Now that doesn't mean that the girl you met is the same as mine, but if you keep postponing the meeting part, she'll probably just find someone else and break contact. You have to do it and not waste time. And last tip, when you do meet her, for the love of god don't say that you love her or something ridiculous like that. You seem like you might be nervous around other girls and that might cause you to say some stupid stuff that would be a red flag to any girl after meeting you for a couple of times or less. Again, I'm just assuming, but from your post it sure seems like it.
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