I'm going to fucking crack, melt, break, shatter, do something horrible to his Black Ops disc.   
 
And I better not hear a peep from him when I stay up late playing WoW and he's gotta go to bed alone. 
 
See?  Its not just non-gaming wives that get all crazy mad.  :) 
 
 Edit:
Because people will miss it...  My husband and I have been together over 12 years.  This is something that comes up every so often.  I'm not asking for advice, I'm venting.  And I'm also just putting it out there that having a woman that's a gamer too doesn't necessarily get you out of some of the same relationship issues as being with a non-gamer.