Well I want to talk about a phenomenon i've witnessed, sure I had friends before in highschool, however half of them are two faced. They aren't my friends anymore. What does it mean to be two faced? Well society frowns upon hostile agressives and sometimes ppl doesn't want to be known as a hostile agressive. So they hide their anger and pretend to be nice while saying really mean things in a two faced cheap shot sort of way. A third of ppl are like this in society, so really two faced backstabbers (metaphorically) does exist. About a third of everyone in democratic societies are like this. The other third are nice ppl, they are nice as a coping mechanism so other hostile ppl would look for someone else to argue with. So in conclusion, you can make aquaintances with ppl, however know a third of all ppl are two faced and they aren't your friends. You probally work with ppl like this on a constant basis too or know someone like this.   So you can't make friends with fake nice ppl because they don't want friends and it's a coping mechanism and you can't make friends with anyone who hides their anger. There must be some decent ppl you can make friends with who isn't in a gang, however I never found anyone like that before. Friends are so overated, get a girlfriend instead, that's way better. Trust me you will get used to this feeling of now having any friends, hell is other ppl.
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Interesting point, so if you have a girlfriend doesn't she have friends of her own, these people can't be too-faced can they?
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