My friend is now dating a stripper

So me and my buddies went to a gentleman club last week. Low and behold, one week later, who is now dating one of the top girls? My friend Paul, yes that's right, he is now dating a stripper. You got to give him props, cause all he's gettin from that stripper are a few great nights and a a possible STD. Discuss!

Don't look down on strippers. They're people too.

Ask his girl for free dances.

i feel sorry for him if he thinks its a serious relationship. but if not, more power to him  i guess.

I made that mistake once when I was way younger. Never again. Trust me, you'll see. Also, keep this type of stuff in Off Topic please. Moving.

Strippers don't necessarily have STDs.

Take it from a guy who used to bounce for a stripper, they ain't nothin' but trouble.  A good number of em' are damaged goods and if you think about it, they make money with their sexuality and that is exactly what's on sale.

" @TomA: Some weird stuff goes down in strip clubs, that's for sure. Especially if it's a nicer club... 
 
So my friend Patricia is a bartender, right? And she's pretty hot with a damn good body, so she got a job bartending at a strip club. I went to visit her, got a few free drinks, and she starts telling me this story about a guy who rolled up to the club in a bad ass car, Lamborghini I think. He walks in and looks at one of the girls for a while. At one point, he asks my friend Patti if he could speak to the manager. Patti calls the manager over, who comes in and asks the guy what he needed help with. 
 
Pointing to the dancer, he says "I want that girl to give me a blow job." 
 
The manager, taken aback, responds with a defiant/insulted "No!", adding "Sir, this isn't that kind of club." 
 
The guy pulls out his wallet, takes out several bills (Patti said they were all hundreds) and waves the dancer over. When she's in front of him, he holds the money out and and waves in both the stripper and manager lady's face, repeating that he wants a blow job.  
 
Again, another refusal, from both ladies. 
 
After that offer is turned down, he pulls out MORE cash, and flat out says the most shocking thing Patti ever heard at the bar: 
 
"I'll give you (the dancer) a thousand dollars to go down on me. And I'll give you (the manager lady) a thousand dollars to watch." 
 
Next thing Patti knows, both girls and guy are heading into one of the private rooms.  
 
And that's why I would never date a stripper. "

Paul=T-Pain???

We're all damaged goods and whores in one way or another.  We all do what we have to do to get by.  
 
Stop judging people for doing something you can't or won't.

As awesome as it sounds to be dating a stripper, I can't see that relationship ending well.

" @jorojoserojas:   And some people don't get jealous too.  The world is made up of lots of different folks.  I think the whole idea of worrying over something like this is really retarded.  If someone's feelings get hurt then they weren't ready for the experience in the first place.  In no way does that make any stripper less of a person than someone who is a charity worker. "

Um actually by most public and private standards High class strippers will not have STD's since most states will destroy a club that has any girl that has sex with clients for money.  Stories such as the one you told are just stories. Most states with proper Gentlemen's club laws highly regulate such matters. Much like Legal prostitution in places such as Nevada are extremely regulated for health and safety.
 
short of you going to a sleazy illegal gentleman's club.

" We're all damaged goods and whores in one way or another.  We all do what we have to do to get by.    Stop judging people for doing something you can't or won't. "

" @SeriouslyNow said:

" We're all damaged goods and whores in one way or another.  We all do what we have to do to get by.    Stop judging people for doing something you can't or won't. "

 
Stop claiming that all people are damaged goods and whores. Not all of them are. "

" @TomA: Some weird stuff goes down in strip clubs, that's for sure. Especially if it's a nicer club... 
 
So my friend Patricia is a bartender, right? And she's pretty hot with a damn good body, so she got a job bartending at a strip club. I went to visit her, got a few free drinks, and she starts telling me this story about a guy who rolled up to the club in a bad ass car, Lamborghini I think. He walks in and looks at one of the girls for a while. At one point, he asks my friend Patti if he could speak to the manager. Patti calls the manager over, who comes in and asks the guy what he needed help with. 
 
Pointing to the dancer, he says "I want that girl to give me a blow job." 
 
The manager, taken aback, responds with a defiant/insulted "No!", adding "Sir, this isn't that kind of club." 
 
The guy pulls out his wallet, takes out several bills (Patti said they were all hundreds) and waves the dancer over. When she's in front of him, he holds the money out and and waves in both the stripper and manager lady's face, repeating that he wants a blow job.  
 
Again, another refusal, from both ladies. 
 
After that offer is turned down, he pulls out MORE cash, and flat out says the most shocking thing Patti ever heard at the bar: 
 
"I'll give you (the dancer) a thousand dollars to go down on me. And I'll give you (the manager lady) a thousand dollars to watch." 
 
Next thing Patti knows, both girls and guy are heading into one of the private rooms.  
 
And that's why I would never date a stripper. "

" @jorojoserojas said:

" @TomA: Some weird stuff goes down in strip clubs, that's for sure. Especially if it's a nicer club... 
 
So my friend Patricia is a bartender, right? And she's pretty hot with a damn good body, so she got a job bartending at a strip club. I went to visit her, got a few free drinks, and she starts telling me this story about a guy who rolled up to the club in a bad ass car, Lamborghini I think. He walks in and looks at one of the girls for a while. At one point, he asks my friend Patti if he could speak to the manager. Patti calls the manager over, who comes in and asks the guy what he needed help with. 
 
Pointing to the dancer, he says "I want that girl to give me a blow job." 
 
The manager, taken aback, responds with a defiant/insulted "No!", adding "Sir, this isn't that kind of club." 
 
The guy pulls out his wallet, takes out several bills (Patti said they were all hundreds) and waves the dancer over. When she's in front of him, he holds the money out and and waves in both the stripper and manager lady's face, repeating that he wants a blow job.  
 
Again, another refusal, from both ladies. 
 
After that offer is turned down, he pulls out MORE cash, and flat out says the most shocking thing Patti ever heard at the bar: 
 
"I'll give you (the dancer) a thousand dollars to go down on me. And I'll give you (the manager lady) a thousand dollars to watch." 
 
Next thing Patti knows, both girls and guy are heading into one of the private rooms.  
 
And that's why I would never date a stripper. "

And that's why I need to be rich. "

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" We're all damaged goods and whores in one way or another.  We all do what we have to do to get by.    Stop judging people for doing something you can't or won't. "

Nice points being made, but I don't think it's necessarily right to define someone by their occupation. A stripper is just a woman who does provocative dances for work, which would be no different than if she worked in a cubicle crunching numbers all day. It's just a job which was chosen based on that person's strengths and weaknesses, nothing to take all that seriously. Back to the OP, nice on your friend for meeting such an interesting person!

 Whole lot of unsupported bullshit wrapped a judgmental view of drug usage which you call a story, none of which indicates any wrongdoing on any person's part.

Let your friend have his fun. He will eventually see what could go wrong with his situation and be better for it.

" Don't look down on strippers. They're people too. "

I've only known three strippers in my day, and they were all awesome people. If they're comfortable doing it, I'm not going to argue. In fact, I would say that the strippers that I've known are far more stable than most of the other girls that I've met in my time. Also, Showgirls is a great movie.

" @SeriouslyNow: Aww man, it's totally possible that he declined that stuff. I've never had any drugs in my life, despite being offered some many times (often by my cousin, no less). Never been offered rampant sex, but I've never been in a situation like that before. I'd like to say I'd decline it too, but who knows? "

" @jorojoserojas said:

" @SeriouslyNow: Aww man, it's totally possible that he declined that stuff. I've never had any drugs in my life, despite being offered some many times (often by my cousin, no less). Never been offered rampant sex, but I've never been in a situation like that before. I'd like to say I'd decline it too, but who knows? "

Sure, it's possible but it doesn't seem that probable.  Even if it's true it doesn't make his point of view correct.  He's already prejudging them as 'dregs' of human life. "

" Don't look down on strippers. They're people too. "

I only know one stripper, she's been a cocaine addict since she was 15. 
 
That is all.

I'd rather date and have sex with a stripper for free than pay her 40 bucks to play with her titties while she rubs her vagina all over my jeans.

" @OppressiveStink said:

 Whole lot of unsupported bullshit wrapped a judgmental view of drug usage which you call a story, none of which indicates any wrongdoing on any person's part.

So what you're saying is that you're too far up your own ass to enjoy life right? Right.  
 
Now, excuse me but what the fuck did that story have to do with strippers exactly?  Aside from the fact that it's utterly made up pulp fiction circa 1950s garbage I mean.  Seriously, do you actually think that story makes any sense at all?  You were presented sex and drugs on offer as young man at a party no less and you decided that you wanted to take the moral high ground and not fuck and get high because you had a future??  There are future doctors, lawyers and judges fucking their brains out whilst high on drugs out on Spring Break as an annual sport.  I suppose you think they're trash too.  You must be the life of the party. Please don't waste my time with After School Specials Morality Lesson bullshit.  Anecdotal doesn't mean FICTIONAL. "

It's risky but if they're happy....

That's so bad it's awesome.

I'll stick my hand up right now and say that I honestly do see some people as the dregs of humanity. Not strippers in particular, just some people/

Hey look at the bright side...

Honestly, its really hard for me to picture whoever is or was being employed as a striper to be a worthwhile person, considering their environment. Few would ever use whatever money they need to get through college. Even then, I couldn't possibly imagine that they weren't damaged somehow. 
 
But hey, props to your friend I guess. I wouldn't really hope for too much for a serious relationship, but if both parties can handle it, sure why not.