Yes:
- Non-preachy outline of your current views.
- Honest questions you feel unclear or conflicted about.
- Questions whose purpose is clarification, not argument.
- "I think/feel/believe..." statements.
Please, No:
- Specifics about the current drama.
- Arguing with an opinion you saw, but didn't like or disagreed with.
- Trying to directly convince people to agree with you.
- "You/they think/feel/believe..." statements.
I would like for us to walk next to each other, moving forward with a purpose. If I fail to follow my own suggestions, please forgive me. :)
I'll start...
I would most likely identify as a feminist, because I believe in equality, as (hopefully) all of us do.
I believe that patriarchy exists in the USA and that it negatively impacts women. I believe that racism still exists in many forms and that it negatively impacts non-whites.
I understand people having problems with the word "feminist". I have problems with the word myself, primarily because I do not like the idea of racial issues being co-opted under the banner of "intersectional feminism". As a white man who teaches very poor black and Hispanic kids, reducing their racial struggle to a qualifier of "feminism" rings of a kind of white power dominance that makes me uncomfortable.
However, I much prefer the word "feminist" to "egalitarian", because "egalitarian" is not something I ever really hear anyone refer to themselves as outside of Twitter, message boards, and other online spaces. "Feminists", however, exist all around me in the inner-city school in which I teach.
If I had a magic wand, I would promote the notion of kyriarchy, as it does not privilege one aspect over another in its labelling and it acknowledges the reality of how different privileges intersect each other based on context.
I'll stop now, and I look forward to reading other thoughts about social issues.
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