before you tell me im crazy i know but i really want to try it 
i downloaded the drivers for it and know the console command for it but i cant get it to connect
i tryed the wireless drivers and the wireless via plug and play 
so what do i do?

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I'm not sure because you've not really made it clear.
 
There's the wireless 360 controller, to use that on the PC you need a wireless adapter.
Plug and play kits are only for charging whilst playing nothing more.
 
Then there's the wired controller which you just need to plug in, if you have this and the game supports it, it should just work or you might have to enable it in the options.
If the game doesn't support it, you could get a controller emulator something like X-padder, and map the keyboard and mouse to the controller, and run it that way.

  https://support.steampowered.com/kb_article.php?p_faqid=421

nvm mind i just realized that microsoft wants you to pay for their hardware to connect wirelessly to something else

Sorry dude but the wireless controllers aren't plug and play. All you're plugging in is the power cord to charge the battery. In order to get it to work you would need an XBOX 360 wireless reciever. Otherwise if you're on vista and you have a wired controller plug that sucker in. In most recent valve games there are options to use a gamepad and it works pretty much like you think it would. 

thanks for the help i don't think ill get that seeing that i have a perfectly good mouse just wanted to see how it worked thanks for the help though