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@blocktogether bums me out.

A few years ago, when this whole feminist explosion happened in the gaming enthusiast press I started retweeting Leigh Alexander’s writings. I never directed a hostile word towards her on twitter. For some reason unbeknownst to me she blocked me. I was offended because I was only sharing her work but alas I thought, I can still read her work online and support her that way it’s not the end of the world. Now with the magic of Block Together, the entire enthusiast press can now block me wholesale.

Now I've said mean things on twitter, like contemplating if Chris Hardwick had a cocaine problem when I should have just said I didn't like his show Talking Dead. It was a stab at his personal character in a public way that I deeply regret and take back. I’ve since apologized to Chris and I've now opted to try to stay away from the ad hominems when judging a work on twitter. I feel like this is a process most people don’t come to until they realize that they've done something wrong, or they never realize it and they end up becoming the people currently harassing the Zoe Quinns of the world.

I typically interact with developers and press on twitter like this now. Looking back my tweets have become much more mature than I was when I first started tweeting(in high school) and I've noticed much the same out of many other twitter accounts. In the case of Block Together, I fear that Leigh Alexander has so many connections in the gaming press and with independent developers that I’m going to be missing out on these sorts of interactions going forward. I noticed today from a friend passing along a block list for Chris Grant via pastebin that I’d been added.

There’s no other way to say this than it bums me out. I've seen the vine of Jenn Frank’s feed when she’s being harassed and I can see how twitter harassment can just become unmanageable. This seems like a better solution, but I feel like the relationship between the enthusiasts press and the enthusiasts they then write to will change. It’s these people that have inspired me to pursue a career making games, and it makes me sad that it might be ending soon on twitter. For my own personal selfish reasons I ask enthusiast press/developers to think hard about making that plunge and if Block Together will solve the problem of being harassed by twenty follower twitter eggs with no skin in the game?

Thank you for your time and tell me in the comments if you were also blocked.

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@splodge: Again, nobody wants to take that right away. It's just that a black list made like that is an imperfect method, and if the author of that list went back on it himself it should say something, no?

The example about the girl was to tell others to unfriend her before the fact not after. I'll make it simpler: it's like if you put online a list of the 425 people you removed from fb, without giving a why, so others people can block them. They absolutely can, but they don't know the reason behind every removal (maybe you removed someone who was a dick and maybe you removed someone else because he/she's a fan of a rival sports team, who knows?) so they are bound to make mistakes.

If you think it's worth it, great, go ahed and block away; but you have to be conscious that you're gonna unknowingly block people who don't deserve to be blocked. It's just simple as that

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I dont follow all the people getting harrassed but i can say that the ones I do often make comments about the bad reporting process and @twitter while doing.

also the idea they want to be harassed so they can push their agenda is pretty terrible and there is absolutely no proof that's true. im pretty sure they would prefer not to be told to die hundreds of times a day and just write about what they like.

Friend, let's not escalate what everyone says here so we can start a screaming match. I never said anything implying that they "want to be harassed". I said that they want the harassment to remain visible. That, if every last troll was blocked, they'd have no proof that they existed at all, and would therefore be less able to make any claim against them. So a way to completely stop them from seeing the harassment isn't specifically their goal. But again, as I also said twice, that is just my interpretation based on a small number of actions from folks who I don't know in real life so it's not the whole story if accurate at all.

The bigger point is your first sentence.

"the ones I do [see] often make comments about the bad reporting process and @twitter while doing."

That's the problem. Yes they complain on twitter about twitter and @twitter while doing so, but clearly... that has zero effect. That's when you say, "Well, nothing comes from this. I'll try something else." But that never happens.

Twitter is an international leviathan and it's just not a big enough problem in their eyes to devote resources to. Those folks who make constant comments about the reporting process know this. Horrible harassment online and on twitter specifically isn't anything new. But they have the power to do more. If all of these concerned games folks reached out to people in other fields and other celebrities and basically anyone who's been the victim of or just wants to curtail twitter harassment, and encouraged every one of their followers to email twitter every day, non-stop until something changed, it could work. If they printed out every awful tweet they received and mailed them to the home of the CEO, if they protested outside of twitter's offices, if they actually did anything at all, things might be better.

As it is, they complain about the service by using the service itself, expecting the thing that's never worked to suddenly do for no reason. They're doing it wrong.

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@splodge: Again, nobody wants to take that right away. It's just that a black list made like that is an imperfect method, and if the author of that list went back on it himself it should say something, no?

The example about the girl was to tell others to unfriend her before the fact not after. I'll make it simpler: it's like if you put online a list of the 425 people you removed from fb, without giving a why, so others people can block them. They absolutely can, but they don't know the reason behind every removal (maybe you removed someone who was a dick and maybe you removed someone else because he/she's a fan of a rival sports team, who knows?) so they are bound to make mistakes.

If you think it's worth it, great, go ahed and block away; but you have to be conscious that you're gonna unknowingly block people who don't deserve to be blocked. It's just simple as that

I see your point. My example was not the best.

In the end though... I find it very, very difficult to care about it. Not that people shouldn't, just personally... It means nothing to me. I couldn't care less if I am blocked from someones feed, regardless of whether I deserve it or not. Or if others are blocked from mine. There are a myriad of ways to find out what people are up to and contact them if you really need to. If worst come to worst I can send them a letter (gasp!).

You are right, however. I guess I dont really have a horse in this race. My initial comment was not very helpful.

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@joshwent said:

The bigger point is your first sentence.

"the ones I do [see] often make comments about the bad reporting process and @twitter while doing."

That's the problem. Yes they complain on twitter about twitter and @twitter while doing so, but clearly... that has zero effect. That's when you say, "Well, nothing comes from this. I'll try something else." But that never happens.

Twitter is an international leviathan and it's just not a big enough problem in their eyes to devote resources to. Those folks who make constant comments about the reporting process know this. Horrible harassment online and on twitter specifically isn't anything new. But they have the power to do more. If all of these concerned games folks reached out to people in other fields and other celebrities and basically anyone who's been the victim of or just wants to curtail twitter harassment, and encouraged every one of their followers to email twitter every day, non-stop until something changed, it could work. If they printed out every awful tweet they received and mailed them to the home of the CEO, if they protested outside of twitter's offices, if they actually did anything at all, things might be better.

As it is, they complain about the service by using the service itself, expecting the thing that's never worked to suddenly do for no reason. They're doing it wrong.

your'e essentially victim blaming duder

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your'e essentially victim blaming duder

Wow.

Honestly, I'm shocked at that response.

Were the suffragettes "victim blaming" by encouraging women (who were victims) to unrelentlessly protest until they won the right to vote? Were Ghandi and MLK "victim blaming" by demanding that all of their protests (from victims) be non-violent?

How can activism to try and improve the use of a thing and avoid being harassed on it ever be anywhere close to blaming those who are the victims of it? Really, I'd like to know. Please elaborate.

It seems far more actively hurtful towards victims of online harassment to be content with nothing more than an occasional tweet about how things should be better.

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@joshwent said:

I can't say what's in their hearts, and I admit this is a very pessimistic assumption, but from what I've seen I honestly don't think they want that. They need their enemy to exist to justify their own crusade. And if it was as simple as just hitting one "block" button and you'd never see any message from that IP address again, they wouldn't be able to re-tweet all of the horrible things those people say to prove how horrible those people are.

It sounds like you're accusing them of dishonesty and playing the victims.

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Friend, let's not escalate what everyone says here so we can start a screaming match. I never said anything implying that they "want to be harassed". I said that they want the harassment to remain visible. That, if every last troll was blocked, they'd have no proof that they existed at all, and would therefore be less able to make any claim against them. So a way to completely stop them from seeing the harassment isn't specifically their goal.

Should we all just sweep the harassment under a rug and forget it ever happened? They are taking a stand, it is a form of activism to raise the visibility of it.

...also, you totally did imply they want to be harassed.

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They need their enemy to exist to justify their own crusade.
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@cooljammer00 said:

@darkeyehails: No idea, but I later found out Lance Storm is kind of weird, so maybe it all worked out? http://wrestlingonearth.com/things-lance-storm-dislikes/

lance has a great love for the block button and is easily annoyed. he talks about if often on the forum i go to.

It's almost as if he didn't spend a really long time cultivating a no-nonsense, "serious" persona and took it to an extreme.

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@joshwent said:

I can't say what's in their hearts, and I admit this is a very pessimistic assumption, but from what I've seen I honestly don't think they want that. They need their enemy to exist to justify their own crusade. And if it was as simple as just hitting one "block" button and you'd never see any message from that IP address again, they wouldn't be able to re-tweet all of the horrible things those people say to prove how horrible those people are.

It sounds like you're accusing them of dishonesty and playing the victims.

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Friend, let's not escalate what everyone says here so we can start a screaming match. I never said anything implying that they "want to be harassed". I said that they want the harassment to remain visible. That, if every last troll was blocked, they'd have no proof that they existed at all, and would therefore be less able to make any claim against them. So a way to completely stop them from seeing the harassment isn't specifically their goal.

Should we all just sweep the harassment under a rug and forget it ever happened? They are taking a stand, it is a form of activism to raise the visibility of it.

...also, you totally did imply they want to be harassed.

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They need their enemy to exist to justify their own crusade.

Thank you for making sure I know I'm wrong. I get it. Let's move on.

I think you're still avoiding the point. Raising visibility is NOT taking a stand. It's not activism. It's what you do before you can take a stand about something. First you have to identify the injustice. We've done that already. We've been doing that for years now. The next step is to take action to try and prevent it, but that just isn't happening.

Blocking offensive people is not "sweeping the harassment under a rug", it's just a step to help stem the tide of shitty stuff while we work to fix the greater problem. Say I'm a person on twitter (which I'm not, actually) and someone sends me a lovely message saying "burn in hell jew!". All I'm saying is that it would help me in that situation if I could press one "block" button and I could be assured that that IP address could never send me messages again. It's not going to stop anti-semitism, but it's certainly not me denying it either. Just a beneficial tool to make folks' online lives a little less horrible while they attempt to curtail the bigger problems.

It's really sad to see my call for folks to try and actually help those that are suffering from hate is being dismissed as hate itself. Sometimes you just can't fucking win.

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It appears that we have arrived at an impasse, as my opinion is quite the opposite.

I think you're a good person but you're approaching this from the wrong side, as far as I can tell. You are telling the victims of harassment that they need to change and simply shrug off the harassment by blocking it, when you should be going after the ones responsible for it in the first place.

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@matiaz_tapia said:

Here is the thing: Maybe Twitter was a bad idea entirely.

There isn't a single benefit for that social system I can think of. What sustains it is people's basic need for attention where it can be quantifiable and the excessive access people have to those seeking it. In both cases, addictive and arguably unhealthy.

I agree. It's really a cesspool. I can't really think of any practical benefits from such a platform.

I've been online for decades now, and I've never run across a community where the DEFAULT reaction to someone disagreeing with you is to block them outright. I'm not talking about harassment, either. Just disagreements. You can't have real conversations in 140 characters, and most people refuse to listen to any dissenting voices. Is it any surprise that it's become an echo chamber for various groups who plug their ears at the thought of real discourse?

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@brodehouse: If we continue with the school analogy, Ideally you'd have teachers or school police or something to kick those jackasses out. That isn't being provided right now, so the kids need to fend for themselves.

Like I said, shared blocklists are not a perfect tool. I'm not even sure they help a lot in this particular instance, but I don't blame folks for using them to deal with the enormous amounts of hate speech and abuse being flung at them through Twitter. If that sounds too authoritarian for your tastes then take a look at the #burgersandfries IRC logs. Over 3700 pages of chat dedicated to making Zoe Quinn's life as miserable as possible. And that's mostly just her. One person dealing with all that crap targeted at her.