Welcome to the site, Heather! It's great to see you and what an amazing first article.
I want to call out the knobheads who post stuff like "Who cares that women are constantly objectified and torn down at every corner by the media, the real problem is that Destiny is too grindy."
This sort of toxic, vile comment is just a indicator of an incredible amount of privilege and selfishness and has no place in a civilized society. Same with the people decrying things as "censorship" or outright telling people they don't care about things like this. Hopefully one day soon the moderators on this site will take action against these sorts of comments, but until then I hope you are able to avoid the incredible physical pain and trauma these words can bring to women like us.
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