What l learned from Ryan's passing
By supergg2k 0 Comments
This has been a strange week for me to say the least.
Like everyone else, when I first heard the news about Ryan I thought it was some kind of prank. Like everyone else, I was immediately overwhelmed when I learned it was not.
Didn't he just get married? He was only 34?
My heart goes out to the Giant Bomb family for their loss, but my first thought was of Ryan's mother and father who have to mourn the loss of their son. For me, the worst possible thing in the world is for a parent to have to bury their child. I can't imagine how they are feeling now.
The outpouring of support for those closest to him and the support this community has provided to one another is inspirational. I would hope that we can build on this and continue to be excellent to each other going forward.
In addition to taking time to remember Ryan with other members of this community, either here in the forums or in-person, I have pledged to do these things in his memory:
Live life. Fucking live the hell out of it. Take risks, but not be reckless. Step way the hell out of your comfort zone. Be fucking fearless. Greet people with a firm handshake, fist bump, high five and let them know that it is great to meet them. Bear hug the ones you love, just make sure you don't break any bones. And look them in the eyes and tell them you love them. Especially your parents, if they are still with you, and your spouse, kids, nieces, nephews, brothers, sisters, godchildren, stepchildren, wards. If you have pets, love them too.
Most importantly, be true to yourself. Don't try to be someone you're not. I didn't know Ryan personally, but I feel like I did because he was genuine and didn't try to be anyone but himself.
One last thought, if people are doing meetups over the next couple of weeks, it would be great if you could share pictures with the rest of the community.
Thanks to the community for sharing your thoughts and taking the time to read mine.
Thank you Ryan for inspiring me to be fearless and to live the fuck out of life.
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