I grew up liking nerdy things but never cared if people knew about my interests. The only clothing I wore that would give people an idea were band shirts. I didn't have Star Wars or D&D apparel because it didn't suit me despite liking those things. I was bullied sometimes, but average-looking (appearance-wise) where most people didn't notice me.
Nerd means something completely else now for the past 15 years. The culture has changed significantly to a point where everyone claims they are/were a nerd. It's Funko Pops and Big Bang Theory. It's being heavily marketed into buying tons of shit from brands instead of this quaint, genuine lifestyle for a niche audience.
Also, the climate is different. Nerd isn't sympathetic people who are/were bullied because of their character/interests. Nerd, to me now, is complaining about stuff that doesn't matter (Spider-Man puddles) and not caring enough about stuff that does (thinking former Telltale employees should've worked for free to finish Walking Dead's final season; caring more about video games than the treatment of human beings). It's about being needlessly pedantic or obnoxious or even selfish.
Or worse, it's Gamergate. It's harassing the sjw actors for ruining Star Wars. It's "not wanting politics in a game" because a character is trans. It's another e-sports competitor getting in trouble for harassment or using slurs. It's that dumbass gamer Youtuber, Boogie, who recently claimed good things came out of the Holocaust and Anita Sarkieesian should be blamed for Charlottesville. It can be a gateway for something bad, like the alt-right. I've learned that nerds can be just as terrible as anyone else. As much as I moan about being bullied in school, I was a huge asshole who probably hurt others, too.
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