Is this girl interested in me? Need some advice!

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#1  Edited By Jared

Jeez, trying to figure out what girls are trying to say sometimes is a pain in the ass. So, this girl from one of my classes (college) started sitting next to me the second week of class (first week she didn't), she seemed really friendly but I didn't think anything of it at first. One week we had to form groups for a project and the group members shared their phone numbers. Now the girl is texting me a few times a day about stuff in class but tonight she asked if I had any roommates and if I had a girlfriend (I'm buying a house and she knows if from when we gave our class intros). I'm not sure if  if this means she's interested in me or just messing around. Whats odd is she's pretty good looking and I'm kinda average. I wonder if its just me having confidence in class, wearing nice clothes from work (I go straight to class from work) and wanting to own a home has anything to do with it? What do you guys think?  Thanks!

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Relationship advice thread. 
 
Oh boy.

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#3  Edited By Hunkulese

Um talk to her and find out?

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#4  Edited By zombie2011

I think you should ask her out, worst thing she can do is say no.

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#5  Edited By LordXavierBritish
@Jared said:
" I wonder if its just me having confidence in class, wearing nice clothes from work (I go straight to class from work) and wanting to own a home has anything to do with it? What do you guys think?  "  
I thought this was incredibly funny. 
 
I'm not sure why.
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#6  Edited By Skytylz

Wow, buying a house while in college is impressive.  She sounds like she likes  you or wants you to think that so you'll help here with the class .

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#7  Edited By meteora
@zombie2011 said:

" I think you should ask her out, worst thing she can do is say no. "

Yep. 
 
Nothing wrong with getting rejected, there's plenty of fishes in the ocean. Nothing wrong with asking her out, even if its a "friendly" outing.
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#8  Edited By OwnlyUzinWonHan

She's going to steal your house, watch out!

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#9  Edited By Scrawnto

She's texting you, and she asked if you were single? Like zombie said, ask her out already!

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Ask her out, find the fuck out, problem solved, or not.
Make another thread then.
 
^_^

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#11  Edited By Ragdrazi
@Jared said:
" Jeez, trying to figure out what girls are trying to say sometimes is a pain in the ass. So, this girl from one of my classes (college) started sitting next to me the second week of class (first week she didn't), she seemed really friendly but I didn't think anything of it at first. One week we had to form groups for a project and the group members shared their phone numbers. Now the girl is texting me a few times a day about stuff in class but tonight she asked if I had any roommates and if I had a girlfriend (I'm buying a house and she knows if from when we gave our class intros). I'm not sure if  if this means she's interested in me or just messing around. Whats odd is she's pretty good looking and I'm kinda average. I wonder if its just me having confidence in class, wearing nice clothes from work (I go straight to class from work) and wanting to own a home has anything to do with it? What do you guys think?  Thanks! "
Does it matter. Jump in. Play. Find out. Consider yourself lucky. Shut up about it. Fuck you.
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#12  Edited By Jared
@LordXavierBritish said:
" @Jared said:
" I wonder if its just me having confidence in class, wearing nice clothes from work (I go straight to class from work) and wanting to own a home has anything to do with it? What do you guys think?  "  
I thought this was incredibly funny.  I'm not sure why. "
lol, idk what some girls want in a guy
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#13  Edited By RsistncE
@Jared said:
" Jeez, trying to figure out what girls are trying to say sometimes is a pain in the ass. So, this girl from one of my classes (college) started sitting next to me the second week of class (first week she didn't), she seemed really friendly but I didn't think anything of it at first. One week we had to form groups for a project and the group members shared their phone numbers. Now the girl is texting me a few times a day about stuff in class but tonight she asked if I had any roommates and if I had a girlfriend (I'm buying a house and she knows if from when we gave our class intros). I'm not sure if  if this means she's interested in me or just messing around. Whats odd is she's pretty good looking and I'm kinda average. I wonder if its just me having confidence in class, wearing nice clothes from work (I go straight to class from work) and wanting to own a home has anything to do with it? What do you guys think?  Thanks! "
Money brings bitches. Fact. If you're interested there's only one way to find out: man up and ask her out.
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#14  Edited By Ragdrazi
@Jared said:
" @LordXavierBritish said:
" @Jared said:
" I wonder if its just me having confidence in class, wearing nice clothes from work (I go straight to class from work) and wanting to own a home has anything to do with it? What do you guys think?  "  
I thought this was incredibly funny.  I'm not sure why. "
lol, idk what some girls want in a guy "
They want you to shut up. I hate you.
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#15  Edited By Jeust
@TaliciaDragonsong said:
" Ask her out, find the fuck out, problem solved, or not. Make another thread then.  ^_^ "
I wish you good luck and a good outcome! ^^
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#16  Edited By Ignor

Feign ignorance.
 
Edit: Or death. Whatever works for you, man.

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#17  Edited By FancySoapsMan

Probably not.

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@Jeust said:
" @TaliciaDragonsong said:
" Ask her out, find the fuck out, problem solved, or not. Make another thread then.  ^_^ "
I wish you good luck and a good outcome! ^^ "
O.o
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#19  Edited By htr10

Women are nuts, girls are even crazier.  They chase you like a rabbit until the minute you reciprocate interest then they treat you like a stalker.  That said, a couple of them ain't bad, and it's not like guys have anything else to do with their lives other than make fools of themselves.  Play it cool and you'll be okay if she's really interested.  Not sure the old fashioned "ask her out" method has worked in the last 50 years or so for a college age guy.

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#20  Edited By Jared

Ok, well I figured "What the hell dude, you only live once, ask her out", I sent her a text and she said yes! Success!

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#21  Edited By htr10
@Jared: Awesome!
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#22  Edited By Bloodgraiv3
@zombie2011: 
 
Pretty much this. 
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#23  Edited By Gabriel
@OwnlyUzinWonHan said:
" She's going to steal your house, watch out! "
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#24  Edited By Damian

Did she ask if you were single, or did she ask if you had a girlfriend? The former is an obvious cue. The latter is ... well, much more ambiguous at times.
 
Screw it. Just ask the girl out. But I'd be cautious from there. She sounds a bit "iffy" to me by your description.

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#25  Edited By sodiumCyclops

If you just ask her out, the worst she can say is no. 
 
If she's a gold digger and all she want's is the house, then at least you will always be thinking about it and can plan for it.

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#26  Edited By WickedCestus

God, I love the responses to these relationship threads. They're so amazing. I have nothing to add here, just keep being silent until she loses interest, that's what I'd probably end up doing.

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#27  Edited By Scrawnto
@Jared: And BOOM goes the dynamite! Congratulations! Resolved in less than 20 minutes. That has to be a record. 
 
@supermike6 said:
" just keep being silent until she loses interest, that's what I'd probably end up doing. "
Story of my life. I'm trying to turn that around though.
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#28  Edited By iam3green
@Jared said:

" Ok, well I figured "What the hell dude, you only live once, ask her out", I sent her a text and she said yes! Success! "

 
here have a cookie :)
 
don't forget to touch her shoulder. she sounds like a gold digger lol.
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#29  Edited By ___pocalypse
@zombie2011 said:
" I think you should ask her out, worst thing she can do is say no. "
yep. Probably if she's texting you about non-school things, she's interested in getting to know you.
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#30  Edited By Jared
@sodiumCyclops said:

" If you just ask her out, the worst she can say is no.   If she's a gold digger and all she want's is the house, then at least you will always be thinking about it and can plan for it. "

Exactly, *writes that down on piece of paper, sticks in wallet
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#31  Edited By stonyman65

talk to her ya puss!

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#32  Edited By JJWeatherman
@zombie2011 said:
" I think you should ask her out, worst thing she can do is say no. "

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Well, assuming you actually like her, of course.
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#33  Edited By zeforgotten

Yes she is

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#34  Edited By Ignor

This was a triumph. I'm making an outdated meme here: Huge success!

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#35  Edited By shadyspace

And hey, if she ends up not being interested, pretty soon you're going to have an entire house to cry by yourself in and as loud as you want! Having to quietly sob in your room is fucking annoying, man.

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#36  Edited By dieguy

From my experience, when I think a girl is into me, she's not.

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#37  Edited By Ineedaname

She has a fear of getting old and it's through this fear she's realised she has no one to continue her lineage, and now wants to bear your children.

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#38  Edited By MordeaniisChaos
@OwnlyUzinWonHan said:
" She's going to steal your house, watch out! "

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#39  Edited By Emilio
@Jared:  
 
Prepare to spend all your money on her. That's what they like.
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#40  Edited By bravetoaster

 Whats odd is she's pretty good looking and I'm kinda average. I wonder if its just me having confidence in class, wearing nice clothes from work (I go straight to class from work) and wanting to own a home has anything to do with it?     
 

This is what makes this thread worthwhile. 
 
 
Obviously you don't have much confidence if you're asking for advice online. Ask her, it's that simple.
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#41  Edited By NekuSakuraba

  

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#42  Edited By HitmanAgent47

Just talk to her to get more info, she's definetly interested from this signs. You could ask her out casually, like hey you want to do something some time. If she says no, at least you can think it was just a causal question then ignore her afterwards. If she says yes, then date her.  
 
Edit: congrats.

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#43  Edited By Scrawnto

For those of you who haven't even read the full first page, he asked her out and got a yes 20 minutes ago.

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#44  Edited By Ragdrazi
@Scrawnto:  Hey that's great. That's so great. Great. Fucking hell... balls awesome great fuck. Fuck.
 
Hope he gets herpes.
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#45  Edited By Jared
@NekuSakuraba said:

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Yea, need to watch out for that. Hopefully she knows that once you buy a home you don't have a lot of money to blow.
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#46  Edited By EpicSteve

just ask if she wants to go out for lunch or something. Not a full-fledged date, just something to see if she bites. Go from there.

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#47  Edited By gla55jAw
@Scrawnto said:

" For those of you who haven't even read the full first page, he asked her out and got a yes 20 minutes ago. "

I just laughed at the last 2 pages since no one decided to read his response haha.
 
 @Jared Congrats dude. Before I read that she said yes, I was going to say she is making it very easy for you to ask her. Good luck on the first date!
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#48  Edited By NekuSakuraba
@Jared said:
" @NekuSakuraba said:

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Yea, need to watch out for that. Hopefully she knows that once you buy a home you don't have a lot of money to blow. "
There is no guarantee she is doing because she thinks you have money, but it's just a warning in case. :D 
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#49  Edited By huntad

The logical thing to do would be to ignore her, or treat her like garbage. It's how everyone get's girls, right? RIGHT? 

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#50  Edited By wunder_
@LordXavierBritish: I believe the term is, cynical.