@rzxvc said:
@jayc4life said:
These loonies certainly aren't the face of the people they're attempting to represent, and it's pretty god damn awful that when people talk about people who oppose the thinkings of Sarkeesian and other individuals on that side of the thought spectrum, these are the kind of people who instantly spring to mind, not the "Well, I disagree on this, because *3 paragraphs of well thought out discussion points*, but I do see what you mean by it, and by no stretch are you wrong" types.
I don't want the world to think that because I play videogames, that this is the sort of person I am. Is it too much to ask of these people, that I dunno, they can be assholes in their own right without using the rest of us as a crutch to somehow justify their behaviour, as if it makes it any less of a hurtful thing to do?
I wish more people would share this sentiment.
A few assholes do not represent a whole.
I made this comment before but it's like saying all Muslims are terrorists, all Christians are homophobic bigots, and all conservatives are racist. It's simply not true.
I'm afraid instances like the MSNBC article will only add fuel to the fire. When you demonize the opposition you only give them more reason to keep going. It's so easy to paint someone who disagrees with you as a misogynist, homophobic, racist, troll and wave away their argument with a sneer of ivory tower smugness. All you have to do is look in the past for examples of this behavior. History just repeats itself, over and over ad nauseam.
These guys get it.Extremists hide in every group.Labeling all of it as extreme just because there are a few crazies is dishonest and bad for the discussion that the majority are trying to have.
Here's the problem with this mentality:
Yes, there are extremists in every group, but it is the responsibility of said group to weed those people out and distance themselves from the assholes. They can't just stick their fingers in their ears and pay lip service while screaming, "Those bad people don't represent us! Stop lumping us together! Lalalalalala!" They have to actually do something about it.
In this instance, GamerGaters lean on the former instead of the latter. Not only that, they start to hurl minor insults to the victims of these offenses by calling them "professional victims" etc. while also purporting that they faked the whole thing (re: Sarkeesian, the last person driven from her home). That doesn't help. In fact, that makes things worse.
Right now, GamerGate is binary. On one side, you have a small, but vocal and effective minority of monsters using it FROM THE BEGINNING to harass people. On the other, you have an awful lot of other people who just look the other way or stick their heads in the sand and go back to their fits and tantrums. I have yet to see anything respectful or intelligent come out of GamerGate. Maybe I'm not looking hard enough, but I try to read the hashtag every once and awhile as well as check out pro-GG articles. However, the only two things I see with any sort of consistency is immature stupidity and a depressing lack of empathy. They are not all be misogynists and sexists for sure, but there are an awful lot of all around assholes who just let bad things happen in their groups name and wonder why everyone keeps picking on them.
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