@depecheload:
I'm going to try and reply to this, because I feel there needs to be some balance to what you've posted. The numbers that you're quoting aren't as cut and dried as you think. That's why there needs to be a little levelheadedness and reasonability when participating in a discussion such as this.
Before I go into my reply, I'd also like to say, for the majority of my position, I am a feminist (though in a bit of a different light than most feminists) and I realize that there's quite a bit more ground to cover, but in an honest argument, everyone has to tune down the hyperbole. I will reply to your points, in order, so here goes!
I'm from a world where women almost 20% of women are raped. (vs. 3% of men)
Men get raped to about the tune of 10%. Rape isn't just a woman thing to deal with, it's a man thing to deal with too, a majority of men who are raped do not come forward. Please don't make light of the amount of male rape that exists, it devalues your argument and makes you seem narrow minded.
A world where 8 out of the 10 movies nominated for best picture didn't even have a scene where two women talked to each other for a full minute about something that wasn't a man.
The movie thing is spot on, I think this would be remedied by more women in the creation of media. This would take a significant change in the way girls are brought up into women and a significant change in perceived gender roles. The responsibility doesn't land fully in the lap of men on this one, women share the responsibility in bolstering creativity and leadership in the rearing of offspring.
A world where a near-naked woman is a reward in a video game.
The only recent game I can think that you get rewarded with naked ladies for being a badass in a game(recently) is Metroid, which is kind of ironic, because the badass you're being is the woman you're seeing de-armored. Though, there is even more tasteless examples such as the orgy sequences in God of War, but I don't really think that is a reward for doing well, I think that's a case of having sex and violence in the same package.
A world where many women can't walk down the street without being told to "smile" by some asshole, catcalled by some prick or be the subject of some perv on the subway's nasty desires as he rubs one out.
People can be dicks(and bitches,) that's the peril of living in a society in which all people exist. I can only surmise that this happens often to women, but I have as many anecdotes to where I was straight up sexually harassed at work by a woman and felt up by an old lady at a bar. Hell, a sixteen year old girl catcalled me not too long ago! I'm guessing this, as with male rape, goes mostly unreported. Also, I think people masturbating on the subway are people with mental issues more than gender equality issues.
A world where movies about men are "movies" while movies about women are "chick flicks."
This is probably one of the more hyperbolic statements you've made, but most Romantic Comedies aren't aimed at men, which is why they're deemed so. Most action films are "guy movies" in which, they're marketed to young males. You'll see that the majority of the movies you blasted earlier(the nominated ones) are rather gender neutral in theme. There are no "chick flicks" or "Dick flicks" nominated.
A world where women still have to fight for basic health care rights while men get their health insurance to cover Viagra.
I would chalk up the reproductive rights to a more of a religious repression than a sex-based one. The church population is a majority female population (http://www.christiancentury.org/article/2011-10/why-do-men-stay-away) so, I think I would dain to think that you may want to tune your equality argument to not include this one so much.
A world where women still make less money than men.
As far as women making less than men overall, there is some truth to that number, there are too few female CEOs and leaders. That being said, if you parse the numbers, they don't exactly paint a horribly discriminatory picture (http://online.wsj.com/article/SB10001424052702303592404577361883019414296.html).
And, of course, a world where a woman trying to do an educational documentary series online (for free) gets insulted, threatened and harassed for no good reason.
This last point is where I would agree with you. The comments stated on that recent blog post and youtube video are downright vile, though, I tend to believe it's a kneejerk reaction from those who feel that her stance is an aggressive one toward the way they live their lives. Video games are important to a lot of us, this medium, especially, breeds a tightly knit community. You can say you like games and almost instantly, you and another "gamer" have something to talk about. When people identify with something as deeply as this, they tend to get a bit mean and gross when they perceive a threat, I don't believe that the reaction to this is genuine sexism.
You'll see this activity in children, hell, I saw it myself today. I was bringing in my groceries and one kid was sitting down, angry and yelling and another kid. Apparently, one of the other children had gotten his cell phone wet during a water gun fight and was a bit pissed about it. The one that was getting yelled at, in defense of himself, called the other kid fat, and squirted him again with the water gun. What we can gather from this is when someone is confronted with something that they feel strongly about, they react strongly and often, in a very petty manner. In this case, it was the kid with the squirt gun's pride as the other kids were watching him get chewed out.
I think when you put yourself out to be part of a critique on media, you have to be ready to be critiqued yourself, by both people who don't like you and people who are petty. When you take on something as emotionally charged as this, there are inevitable pitfalls. Hopefully someday we can transcend this type of childish bullshit, but for now, you seriously are going to have to deal with people being shitheads on the internet.
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