man that FemFreq article... where do I even start?
Honestly, there is a huge difference between "made for teenage boys" vs "MARKETED to teenage boys". I'm sick of gamers getting solely blamed for just regurgitating shit put into their mouths by marketing teams, especially since I'd wager most of the guys spewing that vitrol are quite young. Our generation grew up in a world that hated video games, where people like Sarkeesian and her parents felt "excluded" for arbitrary reasons that boil down to judging a book by its cover. There's this huge group of kids and teens who are totally jaded because their environment doesn't support their entertainment decisions. I think Feminist Frequency has good intentions, but she is coming into this from a platform of spite, not a genuine desire to improve M/F relations. I think the feminist conversation could have happened much more naturally without her trying to cut and quarter everything into tropes.
The thing that really sticks out to me is that she thought the PS2/XB/GC generation had NO GAMES for her. She seems to contradict herself, saying that there are no games for women and yet claiming certain games are made only for men instead of trying it herself and seeing if she enjoys it. I work in big box stores for my retail job (in the gaming sections), and I see the behavior of kids, they pick the toys they like regardless of whether it's for boys or girls. Usually it's the parents (or school) that enforces the gender stereotype (like in Sarkeesian's experience), and yet we must continue to chide media creators and the most "undesirable" demographic of "gamers" to expect a change. How about raise your kids outside of that binary and let them decide what they like?
Growing up, my sister and I both loved playing video games, and this whole idea of games being only for specific genders was not a thing at all. We always bonded over Nintendo (still do), but as we got older, our tastes diverged a bit but we were always interested whatever each of us was currently playing. She is way into RPGs, where I'm more of an action gamer, and maybe that's due to the gender conditioning, but our tastes still overlapped and we end up playing a lot of the same games. When she saw Gears of War, she didn't think "this is for boys", she thought "wow this has great music!". She doesn't play shooters because she is not good at them, not because of some dumb gendered reason, which is ironically exactly why Sarkeesian avoided these games. When Mass Effect became more of a shooter, my sister didn't give up on the series and say "welp this doesn't appeal to me anymore because i'm a girl lol!", she gutted up and beat it.
You know what she thinks about the gender debate?
She doesn't. She's just going to college for game design.
A lot of the negative attitude harbored toward women is because of the SELF-IMPOSED belief that the gaming community is not suitable for them. If you are as knowledgeable and passionate about games as any other gamer, you will be accepted. If you are acting like you are the hottest thing in the community and you're saying shit to insinuate the male gamers, that you're so cool and unique because you aren't an icky boy, don't be surprised when they find your address, mail you 600 copies of the Qur'an, and then all parties get promptly banned by the moderators for being fucking idiotic.
This whole GamerGate thing is a petty forum squabble that has been blown way out of proportion by irresponsible journalists who in their attempt to address a problem have inadvertently given trolls a platform to speak on and a banner to rally under. If you are a gamer, you are obviously going to feel insulted by an article titled "Gamers are over" and the idea that gamers are exclusively young males. It just screams of ignorance, the words of someone who has only seen the industry side of things and thinks they're too good for the culture.
Look at someone like Felicia Day. She loves the culture, plays all the games, is feminist but not condescendingly so. People like her are the people who should be speaking up, and while it's unfortunate that she was doxxed after publishing her thoughts about GamerGate, I thought what she said was quite sound and gives an honest perspective of a woman who is actually IN the culture, rather than REPORTING ON it. These are the kinds of perspectives I enjoy reading, the actual GAMERS talking, not those who are so snarky as to claim they are above it.
Apologies for this page-stretching comment, just got really set off.
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