@falserelic said:
@jarmahead said:
Depends on the work environment. If it's somewhere you can be in a relationship and maintain professionalism, sure. If not, then no.
And if you date some brat that spews a bunch of shit to your coworkers because you broke up, you made a mistake at some point, either by going out with a crazy/immature lady or by being a total asshole that deserves it all. If she's crazy, it'll all end up somewhere. It might not be work, but it'll get somewhere you don't' want it no matter where you know her from. And if you're an asshole, well, basically the same thing.
In the work environment I'm at their some good looking women. Hell, I have a perverted co-worker who always makes a comment about women. He'll check them out then comes to me and gives his personal thoughts about her. Some of the shit coming out of his mouth have me dying laughing sometimes. Though I got no right to judge him because I can be perverted too in my own way. I'm just not as bad as he is, I'll check a girl out and most of the time keep it to myself. He would do the samething except he feels the need to tell someone.
I meant more like, do you work in a structured environment with a strong hierarchy or a more casual setting, but... alright.
If you do it, do it with a mature person, as a mature person; do it openly (to avoid rumors); and don't be a terrible person. When you can make it work, having someone that close by can be awesome if you aren't the type that needs a ton of space.
Or ya know, just make it a casual fling so there's no chance of shit hitting the fan. Unless, once again, it's a crazy person who is going to use it against you. I slept with a girl I work with, shortly after she got a boyfriend and we are still awesome friends. In fact, she's one of the reasons I like working where I work as much as I do, along with some other good friends. Hell even her boyfriend and I get along well enough (even if he kinda bugs me for being just sorta mushy (not romantically either) and weird) even though she had been seeing both of us a bit before she decided to go steady with him.
And I get to be protective whenever dumb asses and creeps hit on her at work, which is always fun.
It doesn't always have to go to shit, you just have to be smart about it. Any relationship can go to shit, it's just about how you avoid that happening. For me, it's been pretty a-ok. Got some good sex, maintained a great friend, and as a result have the added energy and enthusiasm that has been getting me a lot of attention at work. I made it work for me, and anyone can do the same.
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