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When a good friend treats you like crap

DIDN'T SPELL CHECK SO JUST BEAR WITH ME.
I was up all night with Alex. If you read my blogs you would know who this guy is. He's the guy that spoke about the bromance with, and how great it would be to room with him next year. That is ofcourse with my best friend Steve. So alex is number 2 best friend becuase we still have yet to connect on a deep man to man level. You know when you explain relationships, bitches at school (bitches does not refer to women here fyi) etc. You know, life problems. The stuff that really decides who your true friends are. He and I have done this a few times but not enough to seal the deal on a "true" friend. Steve is my "true" friend. We go each other's backs.

So, now that I've nested the context, let me explain what happened. Pretty much Alex is the type of guy that always needs to have friends. Even if they are not really "true" friends he always needs attention. I don't care about that, that's his problem to face to mine. The guy is pretty charismatic and a lot of people like being around him/ being his friend (including me). But because he has so many followers, he can be a complete douche to someone. He has the mentality of "I have a lot of friends, so even if I mess with this guy, it doesn't matter because everyone else will still love me." Now I know a lot you have been in a similar situation. And if you're one of those "Ring-leader" type of friends may you rot in hell.

I cool with everyone. And for the most part they enjoy my company. It is official that they (and when I mean they I really mean Ring-leader Alex) want me as a roommate.

Alright, so Now I nested the context for you guys. I won't go into detail about what he said, because that doesn't matter. When feelings are hurt and lead to anger, that is a universal experience. So he said a douchy comment, and I swallowed it down since I was at his place  and his roommates were there. We actually just finished talking about picking a house for next year and things were going great untill he made his snarky comment. Usually I let these kinds of things slide, but now knowing the type of person he is, I couldn't let it go. I sent him a stern text after I left, but he had no idea that I was upset. I still haven't heard his response. I knew that it would jeaprodize my housing plans for next year but I believe in my principles. 

What were your situations like? What would you guys have done?

Note: This incident happened like three hours ago.  

-Steve
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