I think there is some miscommunication.
It's like when you leave 100.000$ in your car for everybody to see, and the next day you wonder why your car disappeared. People would say: "Well, why did you leave 100.000$ in your car? Were you asking for it to be stolen?" This is treating the criminal like a force of nature. No matter how much we speak out against thieves, there will always be thieves (maybe until we reach the Star Trek age). It's neither tolerating theft nor is it blaming the victim. It's a method to prevent bad things from happening in the future. Don't leave that much money in your car.
But the comparison doesn't hold in this case. If you want to get your video game on Steam, what other choices do you have? The only thing you can do, is to expect and prepare for some trolling and outrage from teenage boys. Getting her phone number is in another league though, I have to say. That's some creepy shit.
How do you stop them? Do something? Something what? Speak out against them? I think everybody who visits this website would find such behaviour disgusting. We all think, that it's wrong. But it's always implied that we are somehow responsible. Because it is always gamers, as a whole, who are harassing women. Not some insecure teenagers from 4chan. The videogame community.
I'm not part of that community. It doesn't even exist. Leave me out of it!
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