I haven't gotten a single hat since I started minus the homeless top hat and I am too broke to spend money on one, can anyone give me one lol?

and oh yeah my steam is robotsquad

Keep playing and craft them.

I've been playing for over a year and I still don't understand how that works I still have vanilla weapons for classes

wiki.teamfortress.com/wiki/Crafting

are weapons acquired by how well you're doing? or random?

Random drops

bah, also I see people with the same weapons with way better stats... how do you do that?

If you're thinking about weapon "levels" they don't mean anything. Otherwise they are the same weapons,

I doubt just asking for people will net you anything. See if they have something to trade at least.

This sort of solicitation for hand outs isn't something our Forum Rules allow. Sorry.