Um... Your brother sounds kind of mean. How old are you guys? That seems very immature. Stand up for yourself and act confident in the way you do things, and really show excitement and joy for getting to play what you want to play is all I can recommend. Not only that, but just don't let it affect you. Tell your brother 'Dude, just stop. Get over it.' And be on your merry way. There are a few different words that are 'c***', and none would be okay to me or close to something I'd expect one of my brothers actually throwing around when it comes to me buying a game. I can't imagine having a brother being an ass like that, to be honest, even when we were younger and got into much bigger fights, sometimes physical. Brothers shouldn't be like that, but if anyone else was like that, like a stranger or a friend which seems more likely, I'd be like 'fuck off'.
The closest I ever got to this was about ten years ago when a couple of my friends were trying to coax me into going with them to practice for a state test we all had to do in high school, and they both said (at two different times in the day) 'What are you going to do instead? Go home and play the same old games you've already played?' The fact I didn't feel I need to practice it, and that they were saying shit like that was bothersome, and yeah back in high school while I shook my head, I did go practice because there was possibly something there that could help (there wasn't).
The answer to your question though is, no, how people feel about me buying games doesn't affect me, and to be frank, I've never run into anyone that has actually shouted out their opinion negatively about it. I've come to the conclusion that it's better to expect (even if I don't) that most people just play games, and so they mostly don't judge you, at least where I live. My brother and I do sometimes joke with one another when we see each other not playing a game we like or care about, but we're only joking. For instance, I might be playing one game and he walks in and says, 'Oh, that's not [enter title of whatever game he actually wants me to play, most recently Bayonetta], I think you're playing the wrong game. Ha ha.' And then goes on to play something he wants to play on his Vita or Switch or something.
Sometimes I'll say things like 'Oh, that game... Yeahhhh. Remember the time I beat that game? Yeah, it was okay I guess. It could have been better, but not good enough so you should probably stop playing it right now.' Even though I've never even played it (like the Hyperdimension Neptunia games, which he is playing right now). We both know one another is joking about it though, and are never super serious even though it can get annoying since my brother loves to put hours upon hours into some of his RPG's to do absolutely everything which means I have to hear an incessant amount of the same dialogue or music going on. It's not a huge issue though, and I'd never say 'turn that off you cunt/cock!' To be honest, I never even say either of those words, and 'cunt' is probably my least favorite swear word. And, I actually feel hesitant writing it on here. Anyways, the closest I get to it is 'hey, how about you play a game of my choosing' which can actually be fun sometimes if he says yes since it's usually games he may like but isn't something he'd usually play. I chose The Last Guardian last time, which was last Christmas, and he went all the way through it which was fun. I also might just say 'Alright, I want to play soon' and he'll just say 'Okay' which usually comes after him playing for a long time, or me coming home from work.
I do have another brother (they're twins), but he doesn't live with us. He's a little less into playing the assortment of games we like, and in the past, he could be kind of annoying. I remember one time (and by now I feel kind of immature about it), where he would keep saying that because I was playing the Uncharted series, that it's my favorite ever. He'd just keep saying it and it bothered me enough where it actually stressed me out while he was doing it because it felt like character assassination to a degree I remember, and he was doing it in front of others in the family. It's actually kind of embarrassing to me now that I felt like that when all he was trying to do was do what he did, which was get me riled up. He doesn't do stuff like that anymore, or if he does, he knows it doesn't really bother me. He is very competitive though, and since he doesn't have as much time as me to get through games, he does go 'what the fuck?' when I get a game after him and have already completed everything in it. I think he was a little annoyed that he bought Far Cry 5 earlier this year for my brother so they could play co-op, and I did everything in it. I know it's not a ruin his entire day, or even hour kind of thing, but still.
Anyways, sorry for story time which is probably riddled with errors. Just saying, your brother shouldn't act like that. He should act like a brother. Maybe you should try to have your brother play one of your games where he's not making you feel shy or embarrassed about what you're playing, You might need to initiate in trying to have him understand, and on the flip side, you should try playing the games he enjoys.
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