(I have never played Fez and never plan to.)
Fish's request that Beer kill himself came after Beer's unprovoked attacks on Fish. For people to now say, "OK, it's all equal now" is to ignore that who acted first really does matter, especially if the primary actor has a gimmick of being the type of person who attacks first. A person who will hit first unprovoked is different from someone who hits back once attacked.
Bullying Step 1: Provoke target.
Bullying Step 2: Continue provoking until a reaction is gotten.
Bullying Step 3: Call attention to the target's reaction.
1) Marcus Beer is a bully.
That's his gimmick. I had not heard of him until this incident. I watched the first 3 minutes of that invisible walls video and the other members of the panel set him up with the attitude that he was going to angrily rant and complain on schedule. That is inauthentic. People aren't on-cue rage machines, yet that is his gimmick.
Neither Fish nor Blow had done anything to him at all, yet his own feeling of being slighted and his need to fulfill his destructive gimmick lead him to viciously and heartlessly attack the character and profession of two human beings who, it needs to be said again, did nothing to him. (Bullying step 1 & 2.)
Fish counter-attacked him on Twitter in response. Beer then called attention to Fish's twitter counter-attack. (Bullying step 3)
2) Marcus Beer is a terrible journalist.
Game developers do not owe journalists any favors and journalists do not owe game developers any favors.
His explanation of the relationship between industry and industry press is horrifying and traracks perfectly with an abusive man's justification for raping a woman. "Slut, you give it up to everyone you're going to give it up to me!"
Remember that image of our boy Ryan with the fedora and all the dumb shit written on it like an OK Cupid profile? If the question is "Is a woman ever obligated to have sex with you?" then Beer's answer is clearly, "Yes."
He's disgusting.
You nailed it. The rape simile is a bit caustic, but your point is sound. Bullies try to make victims weaker. Beer did so. And we should not reward him for that. Unearned rage should not define anyone's style, especially a reporter of sorts.
Phil could have responded better. I could have too when a bully pushed me over the edge and I mocked her sister's drug crime. Neither he nor I were in the right, but the onus falls on those who attack and belittle others, not on those who fail to turn the other cheek.
We so want good guy and bad guy developers that we define people swiftly and mercilessly. Let's stop doing that.
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