So i was with my girlfriend 6 years. I bought a house and lived in it with her the last 4 years. About a year ago she broke up with me and joined the army. (no reason given other than she just wanted to go) well she got kicked out the army and came back here. I already have a new girlfriend so needless to say it made things weird. I explained it to my new girlfriend and we agreed to let her stay in my house for a few months until she could get her own place.
shes in the process of getting a new apartment now. But she is always angry at me and today especially very rude and disrespectful. She tells me she wanted to still be my best friend. I cant be her best friend. I cant do that. I was in love with her for 6 years. She doesnt fucking understand why not. She gets mad because i stay the night at my new girls house to avoid being home with my ex.
Today when i said she had one more month to be out she started crying and ran into the room and locked herself in blasting music. What the hell.... i even asked her if she wanted to be with me when she first got back. She said not at all in a romantic way. (i wasnt gonna go back with her but i needed to know before i let her move back in)
I feel like most people wouldnt of even let her stay with them at all. Im trying to be nice and help her out but shes freaking out on me because im not her friend now.
am i in the right about being angry at her today? Was i really wrong to give her a month deadline after being back 2 months already? I dont get it. I honestly feel like ive done mroe than most people would do. What the fuck does she want from me?
oh and yes it is very difficult because i still have very strong feelings for her. But my new girl treats me amazing and i would never leave her for an ex.
edit: to make this have any video game in it at all i will say that since im home a lot now without a girlfriend here in the house ive been playing a ton of league of legends. kinda enjoying that.