So, i just watched crazy stupid love with Steve Carell(who is the only reason i cared to watch it at all). It was a standard romcom(similar to the few others i have seen and what i heard from word of mouth/internet).
So I guess spoiler warning but honestly does anyone really care?
Steve Carel's wife CHEATED on him, and the whole movie, he is the one who has to make it up to her? and he looks like the jerk when everyone finds out he started sleeping around? But she is the reason for all this, and she is the adulterer. Also, she cheated so why does he leave the house? shouldnt the one who commicted the act be penalized? I mean she has a job.
I dont think i ever saw her even look sorry for what she did.....
Now, the reason all this bothers me is because in media, i like to flip roles. If this movie was about the Steve Carel cheating on his wife, he would be the bad guy immediately. If she slept around, then everyone would say "you go girl, show that man he cant cheat on you!" And the whole movie would be the wife deciding to forgive Steve. I understand what a double standard is, but i feel some of this seriously affects the real world and i want to know where this comes from or if people truly accept this as ok.
Also if you dont believe me, watch some music videos with female singers, the most recent one i remember is the one with Rihanna applauding some dude for begging well?
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