Things that women don't understand about men?

  @JessicaBoo: Maybe you don't understand me, I lack the ability to care about others. I don't like the fact we have to pretend to be understanding just to be in a loving relationship. Maybe I don't have the emotional response to cuddle.   However it seems the best way to get anywhere these days is to act like all gentlemenly. Is your boyfriend like that? He tries to be understanding, tries to listen to you? Tries to care? help you out when he can? Seems like a good strategy, it works for most ppl these days.   For others, where's your self respect? Yes i'm an alpha male and that's what I act like. I also rarely take disrespect from women, unlike most gentlemen who let's women step all over them.   "

This is what women do, they infiltrate a man-dominated world and wins :P It takes only one!

I guess that one thing that women don't understand about men is when it comes to the obsession of toys, such as motorcycles, video games, movies, electronics, tools, and so on.
 
On the flip side, I don't understand why women feel the need to impress a man by wearing make up and jewelry, and also why they feel the need to spend a large sum money on shopping for clothes and accessories.

" @Red12b: I'm sure i'm much older than you are and I only posted these things from books to bring credibility to my points because you seem to have never experienced any of these common things before.

Not that I'm taking sides but damn.. Hitman you seem a little on the edge. First you derail your own thread (not entirely on your own, mind you) and then this..

"@DrPockets000: No not in that book, maybe in other books on how to be a player. I mean nice guys finish last, that's why I act like a jerk. I was a nice guy in the past and it only got females disinterested and in the friend zone.  As she said she likes someone to be confident, I agree with that because the jerk is always confident and doesn't care what others think. I think women likes that. "

"I guess that one thing that women don't understand about men is when it comes to the obsession of toys, such as motorcycles, video games, movies, electronics, tools, and so on.  On the flip side, I don't understand why women feel the need to impress a man by wearing make up and jewelry, and also why they feel the need to spend a large sum money on shopping for clothes and accessories. "

The moment there's an actual girl in this thread all kinds of discussion starts happening...
 
I don't think we're particularly at the point where things get really out of hand; but I was actually hoping that this thread stayed dead until someone necro-ed it. Just keep things civil and not try to generalise too much, I think I've made some serious oversights on the topic. 
 
I'm all up for closing this thread though. This thread is starting to become a blight in my eyes, dunno why.
 
OP

"@JessicaBoo: I'll tell you the truth, men does like to cheat. Being more on topic, let's talk about that. Men are very ego driven I suppose, getting more means it validates them. Maybe women doesn't understand that. "

" I guess that one thing that women don't understand about men is when it comes to the obsession of toys, such as motorcycles, video games, movies, electronics, tools, and so on.  On the flip side, I don't understand why women feel the need to impress a man by wearing make up and jewelry, and also why they feel the need to spend a large sum money on shopping for clothes and accessories. "

The only girls ever said to me was why men get mad and why men want to be alone and not talk as much.

" @DrPockets000: No not in that book, maybe in other books on how to be a player. I mean nice guys finish last, that's why I act like a jerk. I was a nice guy in the past and it only got females disinterested and in the friend zone. It's conflicting isn't it? I like a nice normal relationship yet i'm not emotionally able to.  As she said she likes someone to be confident, I agree with that because the jerk is always confident and doesn't care what others think. I think women likes that. "

" 1. We dont like to be refered to as "cute". If you think we are attractive, "hot" or "smexy" works just fine.   
3. We take our interests very seriously, so dont belittle them. "

" I seriously don't give a fuck about shopping. If clean pants would just magically find themselves in my drawers (Fuck no, I don't use drawers, but just saying), I would be a happy man. "

" The moment there's an actual girl in this thread all kinds of discussion starts happening... I don't think we're particularly at the point where things get really out of hand; but I was actually hoping that this thread stayed dead until someone necro-ed it. Just keep things civil and not try to generalise too much, I think I've made some serious oversights on the topic.  I'm all up for closing this thread though. This thread is starting to become a blight in my eyes, dunno why. OP "

Well,this thread got ugly fast.

" @HitmanAgent47 said:

" @DrPockets000: No not in that book, maybe in other books on how to be a player. I mean nice guys finish last, that's why I act like a jerk. I was a nice guy in the past and it only got females disinterested and in the friend zone. It's conflicting isn't it? I like a nice normal relationship yet i'm not emotionally able to.  As she said she likes someone to be confident, I agree with that because the jerk is always confident and doesn't care what others think. I think women likes that. "

You need to look up and understand the words you are using before you write them down.   Lesson time,   Nice guys finish last, what a wonderful saying, there is a difference between being a nice guy and having confidence and being a nice guy and being a pushover,   Jerks (Or dickheads as I refer to them) are confident because being an arsehole is easier then treating people with respect, thus sociopathic behaviour leads them to feel bigger about their self esteem but at the loss of others, the fact of the matter is, these people are usually very ignorant or arrogant, but most of the time they are arrogantly ignorant,     Whilst on the other hand you can be somebody that treats people with respect aka being a "nice guy" being a nice guy does not mean you lose your confidence, you choose whether that happens or not,   Women respond to Confidence because it shows that you can take care of yourself, being a pushover or letting anyone walk over you makes you feel less than you should, but that doesn't mean you shouldn't be a "nice guy" it means you have to know when people are just trying to take advantage of you,   Would I open the door for another person? yes, but I would make sure that I would close it right after the person I was holding it for or give the door to somebody else before walking in, I would not keep the door open like doorman, and lose self respect because you are just standing there looking like a dick.    You have to find a balance,   "

" @HitmanAgent47:  Just act on it, the world has too many arseholes, we don't need more. "

" @Meteora said:

" The moment there's an actual girl in this thread all kinds of discussion starts happening... I don't think we're particularly at the point where things get really out of hand; but I was actually hoping that this thread stayed dead until someone necro-ed it. Just keep things civil and not try to generalise too much, I think I've made some serious oversights on the topic.  I'm all up for closing this thread though. This thread is starting to become a blight in my eyes, dunno why. OP "

So what, it's ok for it to be a moan-athon but once people start to argue a point it's lock worthy?  Or is it because of a certain stain?  "

" You know those times that you get angry at a video game, with all the shouting and ranting and swearing and possibly throwing of controllers? Women aren't on board that and it does, in fact, upset them to see dudes act like that. "

I can't figure out why women don't find it incredibly hilarious whenever someone says "tits or gtfo", "there are no girls on the internet", "you're a girl so you wouldn't understand", and so on.  They're really well-thought-out jokes, and should entice more females into gaming communities, but they just don't seem to show any interest in this higher form of humour!  Why can't women just be logical and tell us how great our creativity is for coming up with this stuff?  Instead, they just stop showing up when they keep hearing that in a certain game or community.  I don't get it at all, it's as if they hate comedy.
 
Relatedly, sarcasm is the lowest form of humour, and anyone who uses it kinda sucks. 

This thread is retarded....everything said is going to be a generalization.